As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to believe that the journalists who cover the Middle East are not mean-spirited or antisemitic, but are more likely exhausted. It is easy to take the day’s events and apply a familiar template. Journalistic objectivism requires that every issue have two equal sides–Democrats and Republicans, pro-choice and pro-life, climatologists and deniers–so every instance of Arab injustice or extremism is paired up neatly with a Jewish one. Most readers are just as exhausted as the writers, so there is little to gain by wading into the tricky analysis of scientific or historical validity, never mind evaluating competing moral or religious claims.

In November 26th’s Boston GlobeFarah Stockman concluded her analysis of the recent violence in Jerusalem by contrasting the current anger over Al-Aqsa with the bygone respect of “older generations” for “one another’s sacred spaces.”

This characterization sat uneasily with me, and Stockman’s mention of Al-Aqsa as Islam’s “third holiest site” suggested to me a reason why.

“Third holiest site”

After the emergence of a distinct Palestinian national movement in the early 1960s, the broader Arab-Jewish conflict began to narrow, in the eyes of the media, into a localized Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

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Accordingly, the locus of the conflict became Jerusalem, and thrust Al-Aqsa into the spotlight.

The conflict, especially when involving ideological, regionally-connected foes like Hamas, is better understood regionally, so let us consider the respect for another’s holy sites in that light.

Ka'aba (Wikipedia)


Islam’s holiest site is the Ka’aba, within Al-Masjid al-Haram in Mecca, toward which all Muslims direct their prayers. It is believed to have been built by Abraham and Ishmael in 2130 BCE.

Al-Masjid al-Nabawi (Wikipedia)

Al-Masjid an-Nabawi

Islam’s second-holiest site is Al-Masjid an-Nabawi, the Mosque of the Prophet, in Medina, where Mohammed lived after he escaped Mecca in 622 CE.

Al-Masjid Al-Aqsa (Wikipedia)

Al-Masjid Al-Aqsa

Islam’s third-holiest site is Al-Masjid al-Aqsa, the Farthest Mosque, in Jerusalem, the site to which Mohammed travelled in his dream, likely first erected in the 9th-century CE.

Beyond the wall

Jewish sites rarely if ever get attention beyond the Western Wall, and even that isn’t quite accurate.

Within the Dome of the Rock

haKodeh haKodashim

Judaism’s holiest site is haKodesh haKodashim, or Holy of Holies, the focal point of the two Jewish Temples (built 832 BCE and 516 BCE) which stood on Har haBayit, the Temple Mount. Today, this site is typically identified by Jews and Muslims alike as the spot beneath the Dome of the Rock. (The western retaining wall of the Temple Mount was, for much of the Common Era, the closest a Jew could get to this site.)

Me'arat haMachpela (Wikipedia)

Me’arat haMachpela

Judaism’s second-holiest site is Me’arat haMachpela, the Cave of Machpela, in Hevron, which Abraham purchased from Ephron the Hittite approximately 3,700 years ago. It contains the graves of Abraham, Sarah, Isaac, Rebecca, Jacob, and Leah–the Jewish founding family.

Kever Rachel (Wikipedia)

Kever Rachel

Judaism’s third-holiest site is Kever Rachel, Rachel’s Tomb, where Jacob’s beloved wife was buried between Bethlehem and Jerusalem.

From a historical perspective, we Jews owe a great deal to our ancient Muslim brethren who kept alive the knowledge of these sites during the millennia of Jewish dispersion.

But I sadden at the state of Jewish access to these sites, whether as tourists or religious devotees, in modern times:

  • Non-Muslims are forbidden to enter the host cities of the Ka’aba (Mecca) and Al-Masjid Al-Nabawi (Central Medina).
  • Al-Aqsa is controlled by the Muslim Waqf, and Israeli police prohibit all Jewish prayer on the Temple Mount, fearing that even an individual Jew’s silent prayer would result in “a near certain likelihood of subsequent bloodshed.”
  • Jews were forbidden to enter Me’arat haMachpela from the 13th century, when it was declared a mosque, until Israel’s capture of Hebron in 1967. Currently, 81% of the site is controlled by the Waqf, and Jewish access to that area is prohibited apart from 10 days of the year.
  • In the early 20th century, Kever Rachel experienced some respectful shared use between Muslims and Jews before its Jordanian occupation from 1948-1967. Israeli efforts since then to ensure Jewish access to the holy site have met repeated, and often violent, opposition.

The sense I get from a broader, regional picture is quite unlike Stockman’s. The sense I get is that “respect” means Jewish acquiescence and exclusion. Why is my silent prayer–of our common monotheism, of universal peace, of brotherly love–so threatening?

Stockman includes this message from a young Muslim taxi driver to his Jewish friend: “You already have all the land. Fine. Take it. But why do you have to disrespect our holy place?”

To which I say, also in a spirit of friendship, “You have your two holiest sites, can we not share a bit of your third?”