You know me as your friend. I need to tell you something. If I wouldn’t tell you, I would fail you as a friend. But I won’t tell you anything new.
I know you still love him. We know how often you have given him the benefit of the doubt. We know how often you needed to re-convince yourself to stick with him, to stay loyal. But isn’t four years enough to make up your mind? What, beyond empty promises, has he given you?
I’m sorry to tell you that the one who gives you hope, who seems so strong and good, the one your heart goes out to, the one you trusted, the only one you liked for years, the one who seemed powerful and benign enough to save you from the burning house, he’s the one who set the place on fire.
The one who pronounces that he will restore law and order, is the one who riled up and still infuriates people, on both sides.
The one who cares most, who talks about that he will make sure that you’ll be healed, he’s the one who got you infected and prevented you from seeking medical help immediately.
The one who will secure you against foreign evil and buy you enough weapons, he is the one who messed up the outside world in the first place.
The one who brags about his IQ, he is the same one who discards the expert opinion, science and medical science, by default.
The one who speaks of calm, love, and peace for you (and fellow bullies), all he has shown has been the sowing of hatred, discord, and division.
You’re afraid to starve and he will give you all you need? But he is the one who ruined you, who gave from money you didn’t have to his rich friends.
You liked his brazenness, his boldness, his pride despite everything. But, please look back; would you really like to follow his example?
You wanted to believe him. He was a breath of fresh air. But you knew he was an imposter. You knew he was fooling everyone and possibly you too. He was too good to be true and he wasn’t. Please stop fooling yourself.
You may ask: Is he then such a genius that he plotted all this deceit, just to create chaos in order to appear my savior? Isn’t that a bit far-fetched, a conspiracy theory if there ever was one?
And I will tell you: You’re right. He didn’t plan this. He created all this mess, not from a brilliant wicked strategy. Disaster is all he generates. He did not plot harm. He just can’t do any better. And worst of all, he does not give a sh** about all of it, including you.
Let’s tell it as it is. He was your desperate choice. He spoke so nicely. But he never delivered. Instead, he wasted your precious time, money, nerves.
That is a sad reality to wake up to. You will be in mourning when you admit to yourself what you’ve known all along. But it will pass.
You’re precious as you are. Even if he never loved you, you’re lovable and will be properly loved, will know love again. True love and care. Make America Loved Again (MALA).
You need to leave him for your good. You’ve had your hopes up for years while he turns everything he touches into a ruin. Please cut your losses.
If you can’t do it for you, do it for the children.