I have lived in Israel with my husband and three sons for 25 years. We made aliyah from Toronto but I am a New Yorker by birth and temperament. The issue of religious marginalization has always been central to my identity as a member of a very small remnant of the Spanish & Portuguese Jewish community. Our inability to be characterized with any one of the standard cultural framing devices -- we are Sephardim but not Mizrachim--has been a source of both pride and exasperation. In particular, the tyranny of parts of the Haredi world-view which has hijacked a masoret infinitely broader and deeper than the one they seek to impose as the authentic one.