Allen S. Maller

Baby-loving dads get the babes

Paternal care – where fathers care for their children – is rare among animals which give birth to live babies. Scientists have identified more than 6,000 mammal species, but paternal care only occurs in 5-10% of them.

Humans fall into that category, along with species like gorillas and lions. There are also a number of South American monkey species where males take on equal or greater childcare burdens than females. But these species are the exceptions, not the rule.

Scientists believe the reason so many male mammals don’t get involved in caring for their young is because they get higher “returns on investment” if their energy is spent seeking out more mating opportunities rather than actively parenting.

Simply put, male mammals that spend their time producing more infants rather than taking care of the ones they have; will leave behind more offspring. Over time, natural selection favors males who use this strategy, so fathering behavior rarely gains an evolutionary foothold.

Mountain gorillas, found in the mountains of Rwanda, Uganda and the Democratic Republic of Congo, are among the exceptions to the rule.

Though mountain gorilla groups are full of complex social dynamics, just as human families are, in many groups some of the strongest social bonds we observe are between adult males and infants – even when the infants aren’t the males’ own offspring.

From the time that young gorillas are old enough to move away from their mothers, they follow males everywhere. Males, in turn, are extremely tolerant. Some regularly hold, play with, groom, and let infants sleep in their nests with them.

But why is this the case, since this behavior didn’t seem to benefit only their own infants.Scientists found that gorillas who spent the most time with any young, not just their own, also sired the most infants.

This is a notable finding, since mountain gorillas are not a species in which scientific theory predicts this sort of behavior, much less a connection to the males’ eventual reproductive success.

Gorillas have the behavioral and physical characteristics of a species where males are expected to invest their energy in finding mating opportunities, not bonding with infants.

The scientists recorded what percentage of each of 23 male’s time were spent grooming and resting with infants and found that across the course of their lives, males who do the most grooming and resting with infants sire about five times as many infants as the males who do the least. This is true even after controlling for other very important factors, such as how long the male lived and what dominance rank he held.

This is a surprising finding. When we observe paternal care among mammals, the vast majority of the time it is in species that are monogamous – that is, males only mate with a single female, and vice versa. Gorillas are not monogamous, and the males’ very well developed characteristics for fighting (large muscles and teeth) suggest that their primary strategy is to fight for new mating opportunities, not to care for infants.

Though we cannot be sure exactly why the males who care more for infants fare better than their peers who don’t, our best guess is that female gorillas prefer to mate with the males who are nicest to infants.

Thus males who have the strongest social bonds with infants are also leaving behind the most infants over time a larger and larger proportion of male gorillas would engage in this kind of behavior.

Presumably, something similar happened among the now-extinct species that led to modern Homo Sapiens. Our ancestors, like the gorillas, were probably not monogamous. And yet at some point males in these species must have also started interacting with, and caring for, infants.

The kind of care-taking that male gorillas do is extremely rudimentary in comparison to what humans do. Nonetheless, it is notable because of the insights it can provide into how male care-taking in the lineage that led to humans might have overcome the usual evolutionary payoffs that kept it from evolving in 90-95% of living mammal species.

As a good human father always shows compassion to his child; a good father’s love and compassion for the child should always remain intact. So a Jewish father should be the prime Jewish example of a caretaker, always there to protect and provide.As Psalms states: “As a father is kind his children, so the LORD is kind to those that revere him.” [Psalms 103:13]

About the Author
Rabbi Allen S. Maller has published over 850 articles on Jewish values in over a dozen Christian, Jewish, and Muslim magazines and web sites. Rabbi Maller is the author of "Tikunay Nefashot," a spiritually meaningful High Holy Day Machzor, two books of children's short stories, and a popular account of Jewish Mysticism entitled, "God, Sex and Kabbalah." His most recent books are "Judaism and Islam as Synergistic Monotheisms' and "Which Religion Is Right For You?: A 21st Century Kuzari" both available on Amazon.
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