Chayei Sarah – Finding the Bride

Soul Mate

Man אָדָם was created as one body and with one name called Adam אָדָם, “male and female created he them” (Gen 1:27), until Woman was separated, only to be brought to Man to become one flesh again.

וַיִּקְרָא אֶת-שְׁמָם אָדָם …and called their name Man (Adam)…(Gen 5:2)


The soul of man is one until the moment of birth into the physical world, at which time the soul is divided into male and female. It is for this reason that man will search for a woman, so the two souls can become one again.

מָצָא אִשָּׁה, מָצָא טוֹב; וַיָּפֶק רָצוֹן, מֵיְהוָה He who found a wife found a good thing, and he will obtain favour from the LORD (Pro 18:22)


The gematria of this verse is 1193, which is exactly the gematria of:

Male soul and female soul is one נְשָׁמָה זָכָר וּנְשָׁמָה נְקֵבָה אֶחָד 1193


The gematria of מָצָא אִשָּׁה, מָצָא טוֹב (He who found a wife found good) is 585, which is 45 x 13, where 45 is the gematria of man אָדָם, and 13 is gematria of both “love” אַהֲבָה and “one” אֶחָד.

Tov טוֹב (good) in “atbash” is Nefesh נֶפֶשׁ (soul), hence “He who found a wife found the other half of his soul.


Isaac and Rebekah

Isaac represents the quintessential husband אִישׁ and Rebekah represents the quintessential wife אִשָּׁה, where the unique letter Yud (י) of husband and the unique letter Hey (ה) of wife form the first two letters of YHVH.

Isaac was offered as a sacrifice, hinting to Pesach Lamb of the sign of Aries מַזַּל טָלֶה, the gematria is 121, which the final two letters (Vav and Hey) of YHVH squared.

Rebekah carried a water pitcher (Gen 24:15), hinting to the sign of Aquarius מַזַּל דְּלִי, the gematria is also 121.

It is now clear that the union of Isaac and Rebekah symbolizes the union of the final two letters of YHVH, being Vav the Mashiach and Hey the Bride.

As it is written about the first night of Pesach when the Lamb was sacrificed:

And he said unto them, Behold, when ye are entered into the city, there shall a man meet you, bearing a pitcher of water; follow him into the house where he entereth in. (Luke 22:10)


Rebekah is the “pitcher of water” דְּלִי מָיִם that entered the house of Pesach Lamb, the House of Israel. The same six letters of “pitcher of water” (when Yud is split into two Heys) can be permuted to spell “blood of circumcision” דָּם הַמִילָה, which took place on the Pesach night as well in order to partake of the Lamb.

The Pesach lamb must be roasted with fire, hence Isaac is the “Aries of fire” טָלֶה אֵשׁ, which in gematria is 345, the same gematria of “pitcher of fire” דְּלִי אֵשׁ, the five letters can be permuted to spell El Shadai אֵל שַׁדָּי, God Almighty.

The union of Isaac and Rebekah symbolized by the two signs are 242 in gematria, which is exactly the same gematria of “YHVH shall provide”.

Sign of Aries, Sign of Aquarius מַזַּל טָלֶה מַזַּל דְּלִי 242
YHVH shall provide יְהוָה יִרְאֶה 242


Aries is of the element of fire, and Aquarius is of the element of wind (spirit), the union of Isaac and Rebekah was brought about by the servant of Abraham who symbolizes the Holy Spirit רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ.

The Holy Spirit is called the Helper (John 14:16), and the servant of Abraham is called Eliezer אֱלִיעֶזֶר, which means “My God is help”:

By the servant of Abraham בְּעֶבֶד אַבְרָהָם 326
Spirit of God YHVH רוּחַ יְהוָה אֱלֹהִים 326
Holy Spirit רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ 623 (mirror image)


The work of the Holy Spirit is to find the bride for Mashiach from the Nations:

One Spirit רוּחַ אֶחָת 623
Holy Spirit רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ 623
Man (husband) and woman (wife) אִישׁ וְאִשָּׁה 623
In Isaac the Aries and in Rebekah the Aquarius בְיִצְחָק הֲטָלֶה וּבְרִבְקָה הֲדְּלִי 623
She (Holy Spirit) found from the Nations to Mashiach מָצְאָה מִגּוֹיִם לַמָּשִׁיחַ 623



The servant of Abraham’s mission was assisted by the Angle of YHVH, as it is written:

יִשְׁלַח מַלְאָכוֹ לְפָנֶיךָ He will send His angel before thee…(Gen 24:7)


According to some Kabbalists, the Angle of YHVH was none other than Metatron Prince of the Faces:

“Servant of Abraham” עֶבֶד אַבְרָהָם in gematria is 324, which is the same gematria of the variant spelling of Metatron מיטטרון which has an extra Yud.

The servant of Abraham found a wife for Isaac מָצָא אִשָּׁה עֶבֶד אַבְרָהָם לְיִצְחָק 999
Metatron Prince of the Faces מְטָּטְרוֹן שַׂר הַפָּנִים 999


Metatron מְטָּטְרוֹן in gematria is 314, which is the same gematria of Shadai שַׁדַי, Almighty, which is the secret of:

For He spoke, and it was (Psalm 33:9) כִּי הוּא אָמַר וַיֶּהִי 314
First-born of God בְּכוֹר אֱלֹהִים 314
I am the tree of life אָנֹכִי עֵץ הַחַיִּים 314
I was created אֲנִי נִבְרָא 314
Eye of man and heart of angel עֵינָי אָדָם וְלֵב מַלְאָךְ 314
And I will be your God (Jeremiah 11:4) וְאָנֹכִי,אֶהְיֶה לָכֶם לֵאלֹהִים 314



The Soul of Man

The soul of man is one with God, until it descends into the physical body, and manifests at five levels:

Yechidah יְחִידָה 37
Chayah חַיָּה 23
Neshamah נְשָׁמָה 395
Ruach רוּחַ 214
Nefesh נֶפֶשׁ 430
In body בְּגּוּף 91


The average number of the five levels of soul is: 1190 / 5 = 238, which is the gematria of “the light of YHVH” הָאוֹר יְהוָה, for the “soul of man is the light (lamp) of God” נֵר יְהוָה, נִשְׁמַת אָדָם (Prov 20:27). 238 is also the same gematria of “the tree of life” הָעֵץ הַחַיִּים.


Yechidah and Chayah

The level of soul called Yechidah יְחִידָה is the secret of Mashiach which is the intermediary between God above and man below, and the next level of soul called Chayah חַיָּה is union of all the individual souls at the collective level, which is the secret of Israel.

Yechidah is the intermediary that connects Chayah with Ein Sof (Infinity), also called Light, and Eternal Lord, their gematria is 207:

Ein Sof אֵין סוֹף 207
Light אוֹר 207
Eternal Lord אֲדוֹן עוֹלָם 207


When YHVH (HaShem) descends to the physical world and is clothed with a body (the corporeal), he is called Mashiach, also called the “light of the world”, their gematria is 358:

HaShem is one הָשֵׁם אֶחָד 358
YHVH clothed לָבֵשׁ יְהוָה 358
The corporeal הַגַשׁמִי 358
Light of the world אוֹר הָעוֹלָם 358


Finding a wife involves three steps in the Bible, 1) to find; 2) to take; 3) to cleave.

When the light further descends into each physical body in all nations of the earth, and when each individual soul from all nations of the earth is found, taken, and cleaved with Yechidah, this community of souls is called Israel:

Found, taken, bound מָצָא לָקַח דָּבַק 375
All nations of the earth כֹּל גּוֹיֵי הָאָרֶץ 375


Israel is the secret of the Bride at the collective level, who is clothed with the light.

Clothed with light לָבֵשׁ בְּאוֹר 541
Israel יִשְׂרָאֵל 541
Congregations קְּהִלּוֹת 541


When Yechidah is multiplied by Chayah, their gematria is 37 x 23 = 851, which is exactly the gematria of the prototype of Mashiach finding his bride by the power of the Holy Spirit:

Isaac and Rebekah and Servant of Abraham יִצְחָק וְרִבְקָה וְעֶבֶד אַבְרָהָם 851


The gematria of “He has found by the power of Holy Spirit” is 878, which is the spelling out of Mashiach, as follows:

He has found by the power of Holy Spirit מָצָא עַל-יְדֵי רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ 878
Mashiach מָּשִׁיחַ spelled out מם שין יוד חית 878


As it is written:

…God sent forth his son, made of a woman…(Gal 4:4)


The gematria of “God sent forth his son” is 888, exactly the gematria of “The Mashiach” spelled out, as follows:

God sent forth his son שָׁלַח הָאֱלׂהִים אֶת בְּנוֹ 888
And the virgin gave birth וַתֵּלֶד הַבְּתוּלָה 888
The Mashiach הַמָּשִׁיחַ spelled out הה מם שין יוד חית 888


The gematria of “born of woman” and “son of woman” בֵּן אִשָּׁה are both 358. “Son of woman” spelled out has a gematria of 999:

Born of woman יְלוּד בְּאִשָּׁה 358
Son of woman בֵּן אִשָּׁה 358
“Son of woman” spelled out בית נון אלף שין הה 999
Metatron Prince of the Faces מְטָּטְרוֹן שַׂר הַפָּנִים 999
God Almighty אֵל שַׁדָּי spelled out אלף למד שין דלת יוד 999


At the end of the age, the Bride will be brought before the Mashiach to consummate the marriage, the union will then be brought before God to become one as in the beginning, which is prefigured by the union of man and woman:

The man in woman הָאָדָם בְּאִשָּׁה 358
God Almighty is one אֵל שַׁדָּי אֶחָד 358


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