Facing Ourselves During Elul

Donald Rumsfeld famously said: “As we know, there are known knowns; there are things that we know that we know. We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns, the ones we don’t know we don’t know.”

One category is missing. As great Jewish teachers of teshuva have taught for generations, there are also knowns that we choose not to know. Maybe I have a temper that wounds those around me. But if you ask me I will tell you I am calm, even though on some level I realize that it is not true. Part of teshuva is bringing to awareness flaws we would rather not face. They exist and when pushed we recognize it, but too often choose to keep our knowledge beneath the level of awareness.

During Elul we seek to explore our character honestly through prayer, dialogue and introspection. Faults come out of hiding; we look at ourselves without evasion or pretense. The beginning of change is to know what we know.

Rabbi David Wolpe is spiritual leader of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles. Follow him on Twitter: @RabbiWolpe. His latest book, “David: The Divided Heart” (Yale University Press), is just out.

About the Author
Named the most influential Rabbi in America by Newsweek Magazine and one of the 50 most influential Jews in the world by the Jerusalem Post, David Wolpe is the Rabbi of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles, California.