Many times, for deterrence, the humanistic Israel High Court of Justice has upheld the demolitions of homes of non-Jewish terrorists in Israel.
Families of Jewish terrorists do not (yet) face such demolitions because in Jewish circles, there is not (yet) a culture of ‘let’s kill them all,’ so there is no community there to deter (yet — let’s hope it stays like that).
This isn’t collective punishment. (Terror activity is collective punishment.) It’s meant as an incentive for families to be vigilant, and notice and abort any tendency in family members to start a Jew-murder expedition.
That’s to protect Jews against indiscriminate hatred of Jews.
But, young women and homosexuals from conservative families should receive the same protection. Any attempt to physically harm them in their autonomy should result in the demolition of the home of the aggressors immediately upon arrest of the suspects, before these cases go to court.
This should not just be for Islamic honor killings. The houses should also be flattened from heartless Jewish men who assume that they have the right to murder women who refuse to be their slaves and property.
NB: Both honor killings and murders of female family members are relatively rare in Israel. Almost all men and almost all Muslims are peaceful and non-violent. Yet, each of such murders is one far too many. And, the threat of such murders stifles many more youths and women than the ones who are actually physically killed. This must completely stop.
Anything less is just State-sponsoring of abandoning women and gays.