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Mark Wildes

Lost and Found

In 1942 Ted Mogil, a US Marine was given a military-issued prayer book just before he was shipped out to the South Pacific. As the only Jew in his regiment, Ted grew especially attached to the prayer book as the only tangible tie to his Jewish heritage while he fought the Japanese in World War Two. He kept the siddur in the left breast pocket of his shirt everywhere he went, but in 1948 Ted and his wife moved from Nebraska to California and somehow lost his siddur in the move. Ted was heartbroken. That Siddur meant so much to him. It served as a great comfort, and a kind of protection for him, he felt, during the war.
67 years later, a twelve-year-old Jewish boy from Harlan, Iowa, by the name of Will Beach was browsing through a used book sale in his local Reform Temple when his eye caught this tiny orange book. He picked up the Siddur and saw Ted Mogil’s name inscribed on the inside and a handwritten date – November 5, 1942.
Will called over his father and showed him the book. He paid $15 for the siddur using his own money he made mowing lawns and then went to work trying to find the owner. After finding 12 Ted Mogil’s on the internet, Will eventually tracked him down and phoned up Ted who was now 85 years old and eventually returned the book to him.
By reuniting an old man with something precious from his youth, this 12-year-old boy fulfilled the very critical mitzvah of hashavat avediah, to return lost objects found in last week’s parsha: “You should not watch your brother’s ox or sheep straying and turn a blind eye. You should return them to your brother.” (D’varim 22:1)
The simple reading of the biblical text expresses the Torah’s mitzvah to return someone else’s lost property. Indeed, most commentators understand this verse as referring solely to the responsibility of a Jew to return his or her fellow Jew’s lost property. However, the great 18th century Kabbalistic thinker, the Ohr Hachaim (Rabbi Chayim Ben Atar) writes that this verse refers also to the responsibility to return a fellow Jew who is lost to his or her rightful owner – namely to God Himself. This is why, continues the Ohr Hachayim, the Torah uses an ox and a sheep as examples of lost objects because it refers to the Jewish people who are compared to a holy flock – animals which are sacred and therefore fit for the altar like an ox or sheep. And so, if we were to read the verses according to the Ohr Hachaim, the Torah is telling the righteous among Israel: “Don’t see your brothers ox or sheep going astray”- don’t watch the Jewish people, God’s holy flock go astray “and hide yourself from them, rather, return them to your brother”. “Your brother” says the Ohr Hachayim, is a simile for God: “hasav teshivaym leachecha”- return them to Hashem. And the Torah repeats the word hashayv – “return” because, addressing the righteous of Israel –“hashev” – if you will make the first move in encouraging the people to follow the Torah, then teshiyvaym – then the people will take the next step themselves and complete their journey back to God.
This mitzvah is not just for the righteous. We all need to be a part of this: the High Holidays are approaching – thousands of Jews in New York, New Jersey and beyond will be searching for some kind of meaningful experience. Tell them about MJE or any of the other outreach programs, bring them to your synagogue or to a class, invite them to your home for a Shabbat meal. Help them find their special place in our community.
And now is the time. Since Oct 7th there’s been an uptick in interest in exploring one’s Judaism. The attack on Israel and the rise of antisemitism on campus has spurred a greater interest in being part of Jewish life. MJE’s events have since a 37 percent increase in attendance since October 7th. Young people are seeing the double standard. They are seeing their friends on the left remaining silent and in some cases supporting Hamas, and they’re feeling vulnerable and confused. They are asking questions and showing up for programs and we must be there to embrace them.
About a month after Israel was attacked a young man, 24 years old young man came to see me. He said his only connection to Judaism was Yom Kippur services once a year and told me that his girlfriend, who isn’t Jewish, was critical of Israel after the Oct 7th attack, and it really bothered him. He said to me: “I’m not sure why it bothered me, so much, I’ve never been to Israel, and I have almost nothing to do with the Jewish community. I told him about our belief in the pintele Yid each of us possesses and that Oct 7th activated it. Either way, he broke up with his girlfriend and started getting more involved in Jewish life. We have a unique opportunity at this time!
The Ohr Hachayim continues to say that every Jew has a chelek of Torah which is meureset lechol Yisrael – which is “bethrothed” to every Jewish person. It is our responsibility to help our fellow Jew find their portion of Torah and to do the same for ourselves! Rav Kook wrote that you can tell what your unique portion of Torah is by what area of Torah you are attracted to, and therefore one should pay attention to what interests them
and focus on that part of Torah.
As Rosh Hashanna approaches let’s use this time of Elul, when the King is on the field, this time of spiritual closeness when Hashem is more accessible, to develop and deepen our own personal chelek of Torah, while at the same time reaching out to help our brother and sisters find their special place in our community.
In that merit maybe and our brothers and sisters in Israel be inscribed for a sweet New Year to come.
About the Author
Rabbi Mark Wildes, known as The Urban Millennials' Rabbi, founded Manhattan Jewish Experience (MJE) in 1998. Since then, he has become one of America’s most inspirational and dynamic Jewish educators. Rabbi Wildes holds a BA in Psychology from Yeshiva University, a JD from the Cardozo School of Law, a Masters in International Affairs from Columbia University and was ordained from Yeshiva University. Rabbi Mark & his wife Jill and their children Yosef, Ezra, Judah and Avigayil live on the Upper West Side where they maintain a warm and welcoming home for all.
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