Sholom Neistein
Sholom Neistein

No means No!!!

I am going to keep this short and sweet for all the men in the world.  If you make a sexual advance to a woman and she says “no”…that means no bro.  That does not mean “yes”.  That does not mean “maybe”.  That means NO!

I do not care how much money you spent on her.  You spent that money on her for her company, not so you can get laid.  I have spent thousands of dollars on women and there were times where they said “no” to my advances and guess what I did?  I walked away.  You also don’t get a medal or a pat on the back for walking away and doing the right thing.  That is what you are supposed to do.

I also do not care if you are in a relationship with her or you are married to her.  If she says “no” to your sexual advances that means NO!  I have had women that I liked and was in love with that said “no” or rejected any advance from me.  Was I frustrated?  Was I hurt by it?  You bet!  I walked away and that frustration was gone because I realized that one no or multiple no’s doesn’t mean that there isn’t someone else who will say “yes”. “Yes” is THE most crucial part and should always be THE priority.  Always. Always. Always!

About the Author
Sholom Neistein was born and raised in Miami Beach, Florida. He graduated Florida International University with bachelor degrees in Biological Sciences and Psychology. He is currently the Co-founder of Humans Refusing to be Enemies which is geared to bringing peace not only to Israel and Palestine but to the world at large.
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