Parshah Through the Mediator’s Lens: Pekudei

In the Torah portion of Pekudei (Exodus 38:21–40:38), we reach the conclusion of the construction of the Mishkan (Tabernacle). The portion details an exact accounting of the materials used, highlighting integrity, transparency, and accountability. While at first glance, Pekudei seems like a straightforward conclusion to the building project, beneath the surface, there is an implied conflict that resonates deeply with modern principles of mediation and dispute resolution.

The Conflict: Transparency and Trust in Leadership

One of the implicit conflicts in Pekudei arises from the need for public trust in leadership. The portion begins with an accounting (pekudei) of all the materials collected for the construction of the Mishkan. This detailed record, given by Itamar, the son of Aaron, serves to assure the people that the donations for the sacred project were used appropriately.

The need for such an accounting suggests an underlying concern: Were there doubts about the integrity of those in charge? Even though Betzalel and Oholiav, the craftsmen, were divinely appointed, and Moses himself oversaw the project, the Torah still emphasizes that the people required reassurance. This hints at a potential conflict: an unspoken tension between leadership and the community regarding financial accountability.

How the Conflict Was Resolved

Rather than dismissing concerns as baseless or demanding blind trust, Moses preemptively offers transparency. He ensures that a full, public accounting is given, listing every item used in the construction. By doing so, he prevents potential accusations of mismanagement and fosters trust between the leaders and the Jewish people.

This is a prime example of a preventative conflict resolution strategy by addressing the potential dispute before it escalates. Instead of waiting for accusations to arise, Moses and Itamar take proactive steps to provide clarity and reinforce the people’s confidence in leadership.

Applying This to Modern Mediation

The conflict in Pekudei speaks to a fundamental issue in many modern disputes: trust and transparency in leadership, business dealings, and financial matters. As a mediator, I often encounter conflicts where one party suspects the other of misusing funds, withholding information, or acting in bad faith. Whether in a business dispute, an employment matter, or a contractual disagreement, a lack of transparency can spread distrust and lead to prolonged conflict.

Mediation Strategies Inspired by Pekudei

1. Encouraging Proactive Disclosure
   Just as Moses provided a full accounting without being asked, modern mediators can guide parties to voluntarily disclose key information. By fostering transparency, we help prevent unnecessary disputes and rebuild trust.
2. Reframing the Narrative
   If a party feels wronged due to perceived secrecy or deception, a mediator can help reframe the issue:
   • Was there actual misconduct, or just a lack of communication?
   • Can disclosure now repair the relationship?
   • What systems can be put in place to prevent similar conflicts in the future?
3. Creating Accountability Mechanisms
   In business or legal disputes, mediated agreements can incorporate regular reporting, audits, or oversight—just as Itamar was assigned to account for the Mishkan’s materials. This ensures that both parties feel protected moving forward.
4. Building Long-Term Trust
   Mediation isn’t just about resolving a single dispute; it’s about restoring and building relationships. When parties commit to open communication and accountability, they create a stronger foundation for future interactions—just as the Israelites needed trust in their leaders to move forward as a unified nation.

Conclusion

Parashat Pekudei teaches us that even the most righteous leaders must embrace transparency to maintain trust. By applying this lesson to mediation, we can address concerns before they escalate, ensuring fairness, clarity, and resolution for all involved.

As a Jewish legal mediator, I see these values play out in real-world conflicts every day. Whether in business negotiations, contract disputes, or community matters, the wisdom of Pekudei reminds us that trust is built not just through words, but through actions. Sometimes, the simple act of openness can be the key to peace.

Shabbat Shalom.

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Each week, Ari Sliffman, a Jewish legal mediator in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania will discuss the week’s Parshah “through the lens of a mediator.”  Ari will focus on one or two sections of the Parshah and discuss how a mediator could have assisted with the relevant conflict.