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Yearning for Connection: The Secret of the Mouth (Parshas Tzav)

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Picture the scene: a man is sitting in the kitchen, eating dinner, when his wife walks into the room, her face a blank emotionless canvas. Her husband looks up, observes the situation, and kindly asks, “How was your day”. In a complete and utter monotone, she replies, “Great”. “Amazing, so glad to hear!” he says enthusiastically, and goes right back to happily enjoying his dinner. While this exact scenario might not have played out in your life, we can all think of endless case-scenarios where people didn’t understand us, where there was a total miscommunication, or where we wished someone could see past the words, past the surface, and feel what we were truly feeling inside. True connection is rare, beautiful, and delicate. This connects to a fundamental theme in this week’s parsha, Tzav.

Parshas Tzav, and Sefer Vayikra as a whole, are filled with discussion of the Miskan and korbanos – the Tabernacle and its sacrifices. While the Jewish People traveled in the Midbar- the desert, the Mishkan accompanied them. Once they entered the land of Israel, however, was it replaced by the Beis Hamikdash, the Holy Temple. The sacrifices were central to the Temple Service, accompanying every Jewish holiday and event. The Second Beis Ha’Mikdash was destroyed over 2,000 years ago, leaving us hoping and waiting for the building of the Third Temple with the coming of Mashiach, the ultimate redemption. Interestingly though, the midrash (Vayikra Rabbah 9:7) explains that in the times of mashiach, we will no longer offer korbanos, because, in fact, there will no longer be a need for the sacrifices. This is quite interesting, and leaves us to wonder: Why were korbanos originally so fundamental, and what will have changed that will make them now obsolete?

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But most importantly, many of us living in the modern world struggle to relate to these archaic concepts of sacrifices and Tabernacles, deeming them as ancient and irrelevant. It can be easy to dismiss this segment of the Torah as the esoteric intermission stuck in between the more exciting parts of the Torah, but perhaps there is more beneath the surface simply waiting to be uncovered. Let us delve into the topics of the Beis Hamikdash and Korbanos in order to better understand the depth and beauty of these concepts.

The Mouth and its Three Functions

According to Chazal, the Beis Ha’Mikdash functions as the “mouth” of the world. In order to understand this we must analyze the nature of the mouth. On the most basic level, the mouth has three functions: First, the mouth is the organ we use to eat and drink, in order to nourish our bodies. Second, the mouth is the organ we use in order to speak and communicate with others. The third, however, is the most strange of all. Across all continents, ethnicities, and cultures, the universal expression of love is kissing. We are all used to this concept, but if you were an alien from outer space coming to visit planet earth, and you were asked what the ideal form of affection would be, you might suggest rubbing cheeks or something of the sort. Kissing is simply strange, unsanitary, and illogical! Fundamentally, though, we need to ask a more significant question. The Maharal explains in several places that whenever an organ performs multiple functions, all of those functions are deeply connected. If this is true, then how are the three functions of the mouth- eating, speaking, and kissing- connected?

Mouth as the Organ of Connection

The answer is that all three of these functions are central to the theme of connection.

Eating: Connecting Body and Soul

What happens when you don’t eat? You will get faint. What happens if you continue to starve? You’ll pass out. If you still don’t manage to eat, you will eventually die, and your soul will leave your body. Eating keeps your soul connected to your body, it is what keeps you alive.

There is a paradoxical relationship between your body and your soul. Your soul, which is your “self”, your consciousness, your inner being, is transcendent, spiritual, and infinite. You can’t see, touch, or smell your mind or consciousness. You will never see someone else’s inner world. Your body, however, is finite, limited, and physical. Your soul will never die, but your body will eventually age, wither, and fall apart. Therefore, if the soul and body are complete opposites, how do they manage to stay together? Should they not be like two opposite sides of a magnet, completely repelling each other?!

This is the deep secret of food. You need something to keep your soul attached to your body, some kind of “glue”. Eating food creates an energy which keeps your neshama connected to your body. No organism can have its soul remain in its body unless it eats!

This is also the deep reason why we say the phrase “U’mafli la’asos- Who performs wonders” in our blessing we recite after using the bathroom. What is the wonder that we are referring to? Many commentaries suggest that the wonder is the paradox that our soul can remain connected to our bodies. Why do we mention this after going to the bathroom? It’s because we have just filtered out the unneeded part of what we ate or drank, the mechanisms of creating the connection between body and soul. We therefore thank Hashem specifically at this juncture in time.

We can now understand the concept of Kashrus, Jewish dietary laws. Eating is a very holy act! It connects your neshama to your body- the spiritual to the physical. Therefore, it only makes sense that we have to eat foods which are spiritually pure! Additionally, we can also understand the concept of fasting, especially on the day of Yom Kippur. On Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, we are attempting to be malachim- angels- which transcend the physical world. Therefore we fast, allowing our soul to somewhat transcend our body, enabling us to experience one day of living in an angelic state.

Speaking: Act of Connection

To understand speech, we must first understand the nature of words themselves. Before we speak or even think in actual words, we begin with abstract thought that transcends words. By speaking, you take abstract thought and concretize and crystalize it, bringing it down into the world of reality. Speech is encasing your thoughts within finite shells which can carry the meaning of your inner world- and project them out for others to experience. This understanding gives us a fascinating insight into the very Hebrew words used for “word.” Davar means a word, but it also means a thing, because a word is nothing other than limiting your abstract thought into one particular thing. Milah means a word, but it also means to cut, to incise, because a word is cutting down your abstract and limitless thought into something finite and real. Teivah means a word and also means a box, because a word is our attempt to squeeze our infinite and transcendent thoughts into a finite box and casing.

Now, we can understand the nature of speaking. We are separate beings, all living in our own subjective world, our own inner universe. We will never be able to experience life through anyone else’s perspective, only through our own inner consciousness. This results in several difficulties. If I am trapped in my own inner world, how can I connect with other people? How can I know what’s going on in their heads? How can I share my inner life with them? How can I overcome this infinite barrier between myself and everyone else? This is the secret of speech.

Speech allows us to connect ourselves with other people. You start with your inner thoughts and experience. You then take a deep breath and use your throat to project your words outwards. You then use your tongue, teeth, and lips to form the specific words which will encase your thoughts into concrete form. In essence, you then throw your words out into the world around you in the form of vibrations. If another person is nearby, their ears can pick up those vibrations, and translate them into sound. Those sounds will form words, and those words sentences. If they speak your language, those words will form meaning as well. They must then keep track of all the different words and sentences, holding on to them, and bringing them back from memory, while they try to recreate a complete picture of everything you said. Amazingly, these people can now experience your inner world in their own minds. They now contain a piece of you within themselves- the barrier between your worlds has been diminished.

Of course, the most difficult part for the listener is to get past the words, and to understand what was truly meant. Words are only casings, the true content was what was originally in the speaker’s mind, before they began speaking. The difficult job of the listener is to attempt to use the words to get back to what was originally meant to be conveyed. For example, you yourself may use the word “wonderful” to refer to something very different than the person speaking. You mustn’t project yourself onto the words you hear; you must attempt to negate your ego, empathize, put yourself in their head, and attempt to understand what they actually meant to say.

Kissing: Connecting Two People Together

We can now understand why kissing is specifically done with the mouth. The mouth is the organ of connection. Kissing reflects the way two people connect when they wish to show each other affection and love. It is therefore self-evident that kissing, the expression of connection, should be performed by the mouth, the organ of connection.

To summarize: Eating connects the physical body to the angelic soul. Speaking connects people’s inner worlds together. Kissing connects two physical bodies together, reflecting a deeper internal form of connection and oneness.

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Mishkan and Beis Ha’Mikdash: The Mouth of the World

We can now understand in the most profound way, understand why the Mishkan and the Beis Ha’Mikdash serve as the “mouth” of the world. This is the place where Hashem connects to this physical world. It is therefore no surprise that the Mikdash serves the exact same three functions as the mouth, the organ of connection. Let us study the manifestations of this principle.

Eating

Just  as our physical body needs to eat in order to maintain its connection to our spiritual soul, the physical world needs to eat in order to maintain its connection to the spiritual soul of the world, Hashem. The gemara in Brachos 10a compares the relationship between body and soul to the relationship between Hashem and the physical world. Just like the neshama is connected to our physical body, Hashem is connected to the physical world. Just like we have a mouth to maintain the connection between body and soul, the Beis Ha’Mikdash is the “mouth”, the unique location which maintains Hashem’s connection to this physical world.

We can now understand korbanos- sacrifices- as well. Korban comes from the word, “karov”- to come close. The Nefesh Ha’Chaim (2:9) and the Kuzari (2:26) explain that korbanos are the “food” which fuel the connection between Hashem and the physical world. Just as we eat to connect our soul to our body, korbanos do the same for our world.  This explains why many of the details of the avodah, the sacrificial service, have food-like connotations. The mizbeach- the alter where sacrifices were brought- is referred to as the “shulchan gavo’hah- the high table“, as if this is the table of eating. The passuk consistently refers to the korbanos as “korbani lachmi– my bread sacrifice”, as if the sacrifice is meant to be a meal. This also explains why we place salt on the korbanos, something which halachically we do at meals, especially on shabbos.

Nowadays, we no longer have korbanos, as the world is in a lower spiritual state. How then do we maintain the connection between Hashem and this world? What replaced the korbanos? As the Nefesh Ha’Chaim explains (2:9), tefilah- prayer- replaced korbanos. When the means of eating could no longer be used, we now turn to the mode of speaking to create this connection. Prayer itself reflects a longing for closeness with Hashem, it is even referred to as an avodah she’bilev- a service of the heart. This is also why we face the Beis Ha’Mikdash when we daven, as the connection we are building between Hashem and this world- through tefillah- stems from this place.

Speaking

Hashem spoke directly to the Jewish people from the Beis Ha’Mikdash. The passuk explicitly says that Hashem will speak to Moshe from between the two keruvim- the chrerubs (Terumah 25:22). The angels were locked in an embrace of love, reflecting the relationship and connection between Hashem and Klal Yisrael. [The Gemara in Yoma 54b also displays how the keruvim’s physical display reflected our relationship with Hashem. When they faced each other, it meant we were close with Hashem; when they turned away from each other, it showed that we had turned away from Hashem.]

Kissing

The Beis Ha’Mikdash is also where Hashem “kisses” the world. The Gemara in Baba Basra 74a states that the Beis Ha’Mikdash is where the heavens and earth kiss. In other words, this is where the infinite and spiritual both meet and lock together with the finite and physical. This is where Hashem most strongly connects to the physical world. It is the most potent concentration of connective energy between us and Hashem, where Hashem and Klal Yisrael embrace in the ultimate closeness.

Yitzchak: Eating, Kissing, Speaking

This understanding of the Beis Ha’Mikdash sheds light onto an interesting episode in Breishis. When Yitzchak wanted to give Esav the bracha- the blessing- of the firstborn, he utilized all three forms of connection. He asked Esav to bring him food to eat, he kissed him, and he then wished to deliver the bracha through the medium of speech. This is because the prerequisite of giving Esav a bracha, which is creating a deep closeness between Esav and Hashem, is a deep connection and closeness between the giver of the bracha, Yitzchak, and the recipient, Esav; in order to build that closeness, Yitzchak wished to first utilize all three forms of connection.

No Korbanos During Mashiach

To answer our question about why korbanos will no longer will brought in the days of mashiach, we must think about the purpose of korbanos and why they are necessary in the first place. We explained that korbanos are needed in order to bring us and the world closer to Hashem, ensuring there is no separation between the two. According to many opinions, the coming of mashiach will usher in an age in which both we and the physical world will be uplifted to an angelic state. Although we will still be somewhat physical, we will no longer require korbanos in order to remain connected to Hashem.

Creating Connection In Our Own Lives

We all yearn for connection: To ourselves, to other people, and of course, to Hashem. But connection is difficult; it requires time, patience, and constant effort. Genuine communication takes a life time to achieve. As we showed in our opening story, more often than not, it can be difficult to know what’s going on in another person’s inner world, to understand what they are experiencing on a deep consciousness level. Breaking past the infinite barriers between our inner worlds is truly difficult. The same is true when it comes to ourselves, as we struggle to achieve genuine self-awareness, to come in touch with our true selves. This all-encompassing mission takes a life time. The goal, though, is not to be connected, it’s to constantly become more and more connected. This is the journey of life, a journey of becoming, a never-ending process. May we be inspired use these three forms of connection to experience genuine connection with ourselves, with others, and with Hashem Himself.

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