Lynda Ben-Menashe

All About (Other) Women at the Sydney Opera House

In January my sister and I went to the Sydney Opera House for the first time since we were children. We walked back to the future up the cool, wide steps, past the bars we are now old enough to drink champagne at, and sat in the same seats from which we used to watch the corps de ballet.
But we were there not for the corps but the corpses. Instead of the ballerinas we used to idolise, family members of the 15 people slaughtered at Bondi Beach filed in. For my sister and me it was the very definition of bittersweet.
In the poem she wrote about it, she said: “Last night at the Opera House/I had cultural confusion, crisis, overlap, a mash-up./What a moment, what a night./Meeting all the proud Jewish Australians/and the many, many friends of our community/who care and stand up and fight/for our right to be we, not you.”
A highlight that night was the statement by NSW Premier Chris Minns that “we” – meaning the kind of Australians we were raised to be – had taken back the Opera House. Taken it back from the vile racists who stood on its steps on October 9, 2023, and screamed “F..k the Jews” and “Where’s the Jews”.
Well, here we were, my Jewish sister and I. Back in the Opera House of our childhood with a suddenly renewed hope that it would again be a home for us.
Like the ballet, All About Women used to be one of my favourite Opera House experiences. Every year I’d troop with my feminist sisters to hear the cool girls rage against the patriarchy, imagine a better world and, of course, #believeallwomen.
At AAW in 2024 I expected at least a reference to the horrific sexual violence committed against Israeli women by Hamas on October 7, 2023, five months earlier. But there was none. And none in 2025 either.
Of course there wasn’t. Not when the line-up of speakers included Clementine Ford, who said, “ZioNazis, I think you’re all inhuman monsters … Suck shit, c..ts”; the global intifada advocate Grace Tame; and the ubiquitous Randa Abdel-Fattah, who said: “Zionists continue to peddle their rape atrocity propaganda … to whip up genocide fervour … Nobody wishes the mass rape claims were true more than Zionists.”
AAW is held each March to coincide with International Women’s Day. The IWD 2026 theme is Balance the Scales. But, even after Bondi, I see no balance in this year’s line-up, which includes:
● Chante Joseph, who called Israeli hostage posters “propaganda” and was forced to apologise after reposting pro-Hamas content, casting doubt on the scale of its October 7 atrocities, and promoting conspiracies about Jewish power.
● Jess Hill, who maintains a consistent focus on gendered harm affecting Palestinians but appears to have erased the one post she says she made about Israeli women. Hill also invoked Holocaust inversion when she called Israel’s response to Hamas a “final solution kind of project”.
● Yumi Stynes and Sivine Tabbouche, who have similarly spoken out for women from Palestine but said not a word about those from Israel. Tabbouche posted an image of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu eating a plate of Palestinian babies.
There’s a session dedicated to “four Arab-Australian women reflecting on migration, community and identity”. Unsurprisingly, there is none dedicated to four Jewish-Australian women reflecting on theirs, or any other hyphenated group reflecting on theirs either.
About the Author
Lynda Ben-Menashe is National President of the National Council of Jewish Women Australia. She has worked in Australia and Israel as an educator, writer and public diplomat. Her passion is innovation in the building of social capital, especially through the development of deep and authentic relationships between the Jewish and wider communities. Lynda is a feminist, a Zionist, an optimist and a realist.
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