Once I completed my service in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF), I moved to the most religious and observant Jewish community in the world: B’nai Brak, Israel.
As an African American Jewish person, I moved to B’nai Brak because I wanted super-intense experiences in the Jewish world. I sought to immerse myself into an completely Jewish environment.
B’nai Brak has the highest concentration of rabbis of any city in the world; it has the highest concentration of yeshivot (Jewish academies) of any city; it has the highest concentration of Holocaust/Shoah survivors.
I took a job as an armed security guard working at Gan Rivka on Jerusalem Street in central B’nak Brak. Each day, dozens of Jewish children would greet me with warm words of “Shalom” and “Boker Tov“. These Jewish children would smile and play with me as though I was their best friend. As the school security guard, it was my job to guide the students into the nearest bomb shelter in case of a missile attack.
After a few months working at Gan Rivka, I was relocated to the Leilov Hasidic School for Children next to the Ramat Aharon neighborhood. Leilov is a royal Hasidic Jewish dynasty founded in Lelow, Poland by Grand Rabbi Dovid Biderman.
While I worked at the Leilov school, I met several times with their Rebbe, Grand Rabbi Yaakov Yitzchok Biderman. The Rebbe gave me a blessing/bracha that the “God of Israel would strengthen me and protect me”.
Three months later, I was transferred to the Chabad School “Tomchei T’mimim” located between the Nadvorne Hasidic compound and the B’nai Brak cemetery. At the Chabad school, I talked for hours with the teenage Chabad students about various subjects. The children taught me about great Chabad rabbis such as the Alte Rebbe Schneur Zalman of Liadi who was the first Chabad Rebbe.
During my two years in B’nai Brak, I befriended many Hasidic Rebbes including: Grand Rabbi Aharon Teitelbaum of Satmar, Grand Rabbi Zalman Teitelbaum of Satmar, Grand Rabbi Arye Leibish Halberstam of Sanz Zmigrod, Grand Rabbi Moshe Hager of Vizhnitz, and Grand Rabbi Motti Hager of Vizhnitz.
I also visited to homes of Grand Rabbi Nissim Karelitz, Grand Rabbi Aharon Leib Shteiman, Grand Rabbi Chaim Kanevsky, Grand Rabbi Yitzhak Zilberstein. Interestingly, Grand Rabbi Kanevksy and Grand Rabbi Zilberstein both married daughters of Grand Rabbi Yosef Eliashiv of Jerusalem.
Within months of living in B’nai Brak, I began to use the “expression and customs” of the super frum (very observant) community. I referred to great rabbis as “Gadolei Ha-Dor” (Great in our generation) and “Posek Ha-Dor” (Legal giant of our generation). I often said “Ha-Kol Mi-Lemalah” (Everything is from heaven) when greeting others. I purchased a Vizhnitz Hasidic Jewish black hat and dressed in a long black coat and black pants. I wore traditional Hasidic shoes known in Yiddish as Ferrtl.
I will always consider B’nai Brak as my hometown. It is the only town where I understood the culture and mission of the people. It is the only town where I felt safe and secure. It is the only town where I felt that God was the center of life.
Although I am an African American from Southern California, B’nai Brak is in my heart and soul forever. For me, B’nai Brak is one of the most important towns in the world.