Ed Gaskin

Devotion 23 — Sh’ma and Silence

When Quiet Makes Listening Possible

Scripture

“Hear, O Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord is one.”
— Deuteronomy 6:4

“Be still, and know that I am God.”
— Psalm 46:10

The Sh’ma begins with a command:

Hear.

But hearing requires more than ears.

It requires quiet.

Many of us live surrounded by noise. Some noise is external—voices, demands, alerts, schedules, responsibilities. Some noise is internal—worry, fear, defensiveness, regret, ambition, anger.

Even when the room is silent, the heart may still be loud.

This is why silence matters.

Silence is not emptiness. It is space.

It is the space where we become able to hear what has been crowded out. It is the space where truth can rise without being immediately interrupted. It is the space where God, conscience, memory, and wisdom can speak.

The command of the Sh’ma is simple, but not easy. To hear God, we must quiet the voices that compete for our deepest loyalty.

This does not mean withdrawing from the world or ignoring responsibility. Biblical silence is not escape. It is preparation. It allows us to return to the world with greater clarity, patience, and courage.

Psalm 46 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

Stillness is not passive. It is an act of trust.

To be still is to stop grasping for control long enough to recognize that we are not God. It is to release the illusion that every problem must be solved by our urgency, every conflict answered by our reaction, every fear managed by our own strength.

Silence teaches humility.

It reminds us that wisdom does not always arrive through noise. Sometimes wisdom comes when we stop performing certainty and become willing to listen.

This is difficult because silence can reveal what noise hides.

When we are constantly busy, we can avoid the deeper questions.
When we are constantly speaking, we can avoid hearing ourselves.
When we are constantly reacting, we can avoid discernment.

Silence makes room for honesty.

It may reveal grief we have not named.
It may reveal anger we have carried too long.
It may reveal a truth we have been avoiding.
It may reveal a call we have been resisting.

For this reason, silence can feel uncomfortable. We may reach quickly for distraction because we do not want to hear what stillness might uncover.

Yet the spiritual life cannot mature without silence.

Moses encounters God in the wilderness, away from the noise of Egypt and Pharaoh’s empire. Elijah hears God not in the wind, earthquake, or fire, but in a still, small voice. The prophets often speak powerfully because they have first listened deeply.

Before there is faithful speech, there must be faithful silence.

This matters for leadership, community, and justice.

A person who cannot be silent will struggle to listen.
A community that cannot pause will struggle to discern.
A society addicted to noise will struggle to recognize truth.

Silence is where listening is strengthened.

This is especially important in conflict. When tension rises, the impulse is often to speak quickly, defend ourselves, or prove our point. Silence gives us a moment to choose a better response. It creates space between what we feel and what we say.

In that space, mercy becomes possible.
Wisdom becomes possible.
Repair becomes possible.

Silence also teaches us to listen to those whose voices have been ignored. If we enter every conversation already full of our own conclusions, there is no room for another person’s truth. Silence prepares us to receive what someone else has carried.

The Sh’ma calls us into this kind of listening.

Hear.

Not merely the loudest voice.
Not merely the familiar voice.
Not merely the voice that confirms what we already believe.

Hear deeply.

Silence helps us do that.

At the Seder table, moments of silence can be as meaningful as words. The taste of salt water. The bitterness of maror. The open door for Elijah. These moments ask us to pause, remember, and become attentive.

The story of liberation is told through speech, but it is received through listening.

And listening requires stillness.

In a noisy world, silence becomes a discipline of faith. It clears space for God. It softens the heart. It slows judgment. It makes room for wisdom.

Silence is not the absence of meaning.

It is where meaning can finally be heard.

Reflection Questions

What forms of noise make it difficult for you to listen deeply?

When has silence helped you recognize something you had been avoiding?

How might stillness change the way you respond in moments of conflict?

Where in your life do you need more space to hear God, others, or your own conscience?

Prayer

God of stillness,

teach us to be quiet enough to hear.
Calm the noise within us,
and make space for wisdom, truth, and compassion.

Help us pause before reacting,
listen before speaking,
and return to the world with clearer hearts.

May our silence deepen our listening,
and may our listening lead us toward faithfulness.

Amen.

About the Author
Ed Gaskin attends Temple Beth Elohim in Wellesley, Massachusetts and Roxbury Presbyterian Church in Roxbury, Mass. He has co-taught a course with professor Dean Borman called, “Christianity and the Problem of Racism” to Evangelicals (think Trump followers) for over 25 years. Ed has an M. Div. degree from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and graduated as a Martin Trust Fellow from MIT’s Sloan School of Management. He has published several books on a range of topics and was a co-organizer of the first faith-based initiative on reducing gang violence at the National Press Club in Washington DC. In addition to leading a non-profit in one of the poorest communities in Boston, and serving on several non-profit advisory boards, Ed’s current focus is reducing the incidence of diet-related disease by developing food with little salt, fat or sugar and none of the top eight allergens. He does this as the founder of Sunday Celebrations, a consumer-packaged goods business that makes “Good for You” gourmet food.
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