Adele Raemer
Life on the Border with the Gaza Strip

Dinner-time conversations

Last week, Israel reeled from the news of the knifings, the rammings, the terrorist attacks that had been popping up around the country, like mushrooms in the wake of yesterday’s rain. People were mainlining the news reports, bracing themselves for the next announcement of another “lone wolf attack”, which could take place anytime, ANYPLACE in the country. Such is the face of terror.

The past few days, the government has started “handling” the situation. As a result, the attacks have become fewer and farther between, since walls and barriers have been put up between “us” and “them”. The attacks now are more or less limited to the areas in East Jerusalem and on the West Bank. People from other parts of the country seem to have let out a collective sigh of relief. *Whew* ….Back to our lives, back to shopping without looking over our shoulders, back to the cinema, back to “status quo”.

In the Western Negev, this is what has become “status quo”, a few times a week, with barely a mention on the news. I share with you an excerpt from last night’s dinner-time conversation between friends who live in different communities around the border with Gaza:

19:06
Adele: Did you guys just have a Red Alert?
Ron: Yes
Tom: Affirmative
I’m not on Kibbutz.
But my wife said that she heard an explosion.
Avi: (Angry Emoticons)
Adi: (Quoting an online source) “Red Alert: Explosion north-west of the kibbutz”. Let’s hope that the rest of tonight is quiet.
Alona: We also heard an explosion in XXX.
Ora: Ggrrrr…. We’ve been hearing planes overhead all day! So they responded?

Dinnertime Conversation
Dinnertime Conversation

Neither of the situations can be “handled” for a prolonged period. Everyone knows that a pressure cooker left on too long is destined to explode. Serious steps need to be taken by both our governments. Quickly. It’s not enough to let the steam out. We need to finish cooking this “meal” properly, once and for all. For the good of ALL of the children who live in this region, be it in the Western Negev, the West Bank, Jerusalem or Gaza. Our kids should not be growing up afraid of a 13 year-old terrorist knifing them while riding their bikes, or having 8 seconds to run for shelter when they hear the calm female voice announcing “Red alert, Red alert”.

We should not be having “dinner-time conversations” like these.

About the Author
The writer (aka "Zioness on the Border" on social media) is a mother and a grandmother who since 1975 has been living and raising her family on Kibbutz Nirim along the usually paradisiacal, sometimes hellishly volatile border with the Gaza Strip. She founded and moderates a 14K-strong Facebook group named "Life on the Border with Gaza". The writer blogs about the dreams and dramas that are part of border kibbutznik life. Until recently, she could often be found photographing her beloved region, which is exactly what she had planned to do at sunrise, October 7th. Fortunately, she did not go out that morning. As a result, she survived the murderous terror infiltrations of that tragic day, hunkering down in her safe room with her 33-year-old son for 11 terrifying hours. So many of her friends and neighbors, though, were not so lucky. More than she can even count. Adele was an educator for 38 years in her regional school, and has been one of the go-to voices of the Western Negev when escalations on the southern border have journalists looking for people on the ground. On October 7, her 95% Heaven transformed into 100% Hell. Since then she has given a multitude of interviews, going abroad on seven missions in support of Israel and as an advocate for her people. In addition to fighting the current wave of lies and blood libels about the Jewish state, she is raising money to help restore their Paradise so that members of her kibbutz can return to their homes on the border, where they can begin to heal. If you wish to learn more about how you can help her and her community return home, please feel free to drop her a line.
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