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Moshe-Mordechai van Zuiden
Psychology, Medicine, Science, Politics, Oppression, Integrity, Philosophy, Jews -- For those who like their news and truths frank and sharp

Disconnect from electronics at least one day a week!

Years ago, when a bunch of pre-teenagers for whom I was responsible wanted to play video games, I often gave them a ball and told them: Out! They now are grateful for that because it saved them their social skills. Yet, it didn’t work completely, as they sometimes would quietly visit neighboring friends and there waste their precious playtime by zombie-watching movies on the small screen together.

People who keep Shabbat are extra privileged as we get un-hooked one day a week from the mobile phone. On the other hand, many (almost?) Day of Rest observing youths can’t do it and continue SMS-ing or calling on Shabbat. Since the phones are battery operated, it’s not the worst Shabbat violation possible but it is surely not in the spirit of Shabbat and violates their human need for a non-virtual good life. (Don’t interrogate your young ones but rather friendly ask if you can help them and/or their friends to unhook. (Not their phones need to stay off the hook – they need to unhook.) Then listen, don’t preach.)

The news now has it that the supposed bastion of secularism, Tel Aviv, is encouraging teenagers to disconnect from their anti-social media, part of the time at least. How about not checking your phone first thing in the morning every day, tossing out that pristine mindset after a refreshing night of deep sleep (if you don’t drink coffee)?

Does it work for you or does it work on your nerves?

In the Netherlands, there are now many university faculties that obligate their students to write notes at lectures and that then forbid typing on laptops. This especially in studies for professions that travel many electronic highways like journalism, and political and natural science. The shocking reason is that research shows that hand-writing notes help memorization of the material and typing notes does not!

Voting machines in the largest democracy on earth are so easily hacked. It’s unclear why they are still much in use. If one wants the voters to decide and win, going less electronic on election day might be very important.

Last but not least, would it not be great to have the money to buy the databanks that contain all the information you want to read or quote? Such greatness was never before! That too I call a decline of the generation and not human progress. How so? When you know stuff by heart, you have a different mind then if you don’t. Not only can you quote at lightning speed, all your mental processes will take into account 24/7 what you learned well.

So, think twice before you pity people who periodically or all together, temporarily or permanently have disconnected from the Internet, the iPhone and/or television. Among them might be members of religious sects but also nature lovers, people who hate stress and who love themselves enough to prefer smart (a smart-not-phone) over normal, real over virtual.

Disclaimer: I have no Internet on my phone and my ADSL has an Orthodox-Jewish porn filter.

About the Author
MM is a prolific and creative writer and thinker, an almost daily blog contributor to the Times of Israel, and previously, for decades, he was known to the Jerusalem Post readers as a frequent letter writer. He often makes his readers laugh, mad, or assume he's nuts—close to perfect blogging. He's proud that his analytical short comments are removed both from left-wing and right-wing news sites. * As a frontier thinker, he sees things many don't yet. He's half a prophet. Half. Let's not exaggerate. He doesn't believe that people observe and think in a vacuum. He, therefore, wanted a broad bio that readers interested can track a bit about what (lack of) backgrounds, experiences, and education contribute to his visions. * To find less-recent posts on subject XXX among his over 1600 archived ones, go to the right-top corner of a Times of Israel page, click on the search icon and search "zuiden, XXX". One can find a second, wilder blog, to which one may subscribe, here: https://mmvanzuiden.wordpress.com/. * Like most of his readers, he believes in being friendly, respectful, and loyal. Yet, if you think those are his absolute top priorities, you might end up disappointed. His first loyalty is to the truth. He will try to stay within the limits of democratic and Jewish law, but he won't lie to support opinions or people who don't deserve that. He admits that he sometimes exaggerates to make a point, which could have him come across as nasty, while in actuality, he's quite a lovely person to interact with. He holds - how Dutch - that a strong opinion doesn't imply intolerance of other views. * Sometimes he's misunderstood because his wide and diverse field of vision seldomly fits any specialist's box. But that's exactly what some love about him. He has written a lot about Psychology (including Sexuality and Abuse), Medicine (including physical immortality), Science (including basic statistics), Politics (Israel, the US, and the Netherlands, Activism), Oppression and Liberation (intersectionally, for young people, the elderly, non-Whites, women, workers, Jews, LGBTQIA+, foreigners and anyone else who's dehumanized or exploited), Integrity, Philosophy, Jews (Judaism, Zionism, Holocaust, and Jewish Liberation), the Climate Crisis, Ecology and Veganism, Affairs from the news, or the Torah Portion of the Week, or new insights that suddenly befell him. * His most influential teachers (chronologically) are his parents, Nico (natan) van Zuiden and Betty (beisye) Nieweg, Wim Kan, Mozart, Harvey Jackins, Marshal Rosenberg, Reb Shlomo Carlebach, and, lehavdil bein chayim lechayim, Rabbi Dr. Natan Lopes Cardozo, Rav Zev Leff, and Rav Meir Lubin. * He hopes that his words will inspire and inform, and disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed. He aims to bring a fresh perspective rather than harp on the obvious and familiar. He loves to write encyclopedic overviews. He doesn't expect his readers to agree. Rather, original minds should be disputed. In short, his main political positions are among others: anti-Trumpism, anti-elitism, anti-bigotry and supremacy, for Zionism, Intersectionality, and non-violence, anti those who abuse democratic liberties, anti the fake ME peace process, for original-Orthodoxy, pro-Science, pro-Free Will, anti-blaming-the-victim, and for down-to-earth, classical optimism, and happiness. * He is a fetal survivor of the pharmaceutical industry (https://diethylstilbestrol.co.uk/studies/des-and-psychological-health/), born in 1953 to parents who were Dutch-Jewish Holocaust survivors who met in the largest concentration camp in the Netherlands, Westerbork. He grew up a humble listener. It took him decades to become a speaker too. Bullies and con artists almost instantaneously envy and hate him. * He holds a BA in medicine (University of Amsterdam) – is half a doctor. He practices Re-evaluation Co-counseling since 1977, is not an official teacher anymore, and became a friendly, empowering therapist. He became a social activist, became religious, made Aliyah, and raised three wonderful kids non-violently. For a couple of years, he was active in hasbara to the Dutch-speaking public. He wrote an unpublished tome about Jewish Free Will. He's being a strict vegan since 2008. He's an Orthodox Jew but not a rabbi. He lives with his library in Jerusalem. Feel free to contact him. * His writing has been made possible by a (second-generation) Holocaust survivors' allowance from the Netherlands. It has been his dream since he was 38 to try to make a difference by teaching through writing. He had three times 9-out-of-10 for Dutch at his high school finals but is spending his days communicating in English and Hebrew - how ironic. G-d must have a fine sense of humor. In case you wonder - yes, he is a bit dyslectic. If you're a native English speaker and wonder why you should read from people whose English is only their second language, consider the advantage of having an original peek outside of your cultural bubble.
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