How We Treat One Another

My teacher Simon Greenberg once explained the great innovation of the Ten Commandments. He explained that the first four are the justification for the last six. In other words, he told us, the Ten Commandments introduced the world to the idea that God cares most how we treat one another.

In the Greek myths, for example, the gods are preoccupied with whether human beings show them due respect. But they do not make rules for how people themselves interact. In the Torah, God’s rules are about shaping human character and caring for human needs. As God’s children, we are all of concern to the Creator.

Judaism divides mitzvot: bein adam l’havero and bein adam l’makom: between people and between a person and God. But in truth, as Rabbi Greenberg explained, the first is a consequence of the second. Judaism tells that that ethical conduct is an outgrowth of our realization that we are all part of the same human family, with the same Divine parent. Untangle the strands of our spiritual DNA and you will discover a spark, in every human being, of the One who spoke and created a world.

Rabbi David Wolpe is spiritual leader of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles. Follow his teachings at


About the Author
Named the most influential Rabbi in America by Newsweek Magazine and one of the 50 most influential Jews in the world by the Jerusalem Post, David Wolpe is the Rabbi of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles, California.