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Ari M. Berman
An attorney in New York

Missing in Action – Michelle Obama & The Hostages

In 2014, then First Lady Michelle Obama admirably helped lead a global campaign to rescue 276 schoolgirls who had been taken hostage by Boko Haram, an Islamist terrorist organization in Nigeria. Mrs. Obama said that she saw her “own daughters” when thinking about the hostages and spearheaded a “Hashtag” movement: #BringBackOurGirls to secure their release. The girls were kidnapped from their dormitory on the night before their final exams, triggering worldwide outrage and attention from global politicians, hip-hop royalty, and Hollywood celebrities alike. People all over the world began tweeting the same clarion call: #BringBackOurGirls.

The news understandably ate it up, as anchors painfully retold the story, connecting people to the universal panic of seeing schoolchildren taken captive. We were united by the cause of liberation as who could argue that 276 teenage girls deserved a better fate than being terrorized by maniacal animals. Michelle Obama had not been known for making statements on foreign affairs – yet she decided to Tweet about the situation, moved that these “could have been my girls.” She posted a now iconic picture of herself on social media with #BringBackOurGirls plastered on a placard. Suffice to say her efforts made a difference, pouring jet fuel on the attention focused on the kidnappings.

For his part, President Obama offered his full support to his wife, confirming that the U.S. government was doing everything in its power to help bring the girls back. The President even ceded his weekly Presidential address to Michelle. She spoke about the “outrage” and “heartbreak” over the girls’ abduction, refusing to let their story be forgotten and calling attention to this event as part of a larger narrative about the importance of advancing girls’ educational opportunities. As Michelle said: “In these girls, Barack and I see our own daughters. We see their hopes, their dreams, and we can only imagine the anguish their parents are feeling right now.”

Kol ha-kavod.

Naturally, following the horrific events of October 7th, one would expect the Obamas and their acolytes to support efforts to free the hostages from Hamas – especially considering the unspeakable atrocities Hamas committed, most notably its weaponization of rape. After all, if Michelle was so moved to action when Nigerian schoolgirls were abducted, she should similarly be moved after October 7th, mindful that Hamas had taken American citizens hostage. Instead, we received crickets from Michelle and a lump of coal from Barack.

Shame on them.

Lest you think this article is a political commentary, which it plainly is not, here is the former President in his own words shortly after October 7th: “What Hamas did was horrific, and there’s no justification for it. And what is also true is that the occupation and what’s happening to Palestinians is unbearable.” Obama’s equivocal, mealy-mouthed nonsense would have been enough; dayeinu. But he doubled down on his head-scratching rhetoric, juxtaposing stories of the Holocaust and “the madness of antisemitism” with the fact that “there are people right now who are dying, who had nothing to do with what Hamas did.” Predictably, Obama concluded his statement through his typical universalistic urging of his subjects to reject antisemitic, anti-Muslim, anti-Arab and anti-Palestinian sentiments. For his crescendo, President said: “If you want to solve the problem, then you have to take in the whole truth,” he says. “And then you have to admit nobody’s hands are clean, that all of us are complicit to some degree.”

President Obama should know better. There is simply no comparison between the October 7th victims and the Palestinians’ situation writ large – they don’t belong in the same paragraph; it is obscene to juxtapose the two. The seemingly lionized Obamas are highly influential with young Democrats, making President Obama’s statement even more troubling – it fuels antisemitic bias, and worse. Obama’s words predictably had consequences, prompting more than 100 Obama-administration alumni to sign a letter urging Obama use his “leverage” with President Biden to secure an immediate cease-fire. As we know, calling for a “cease fire” essentially is code for telling Israel to surrender. It matters not whether you voted for President Obama, or believe he was a good President for our country. History will be the judge.

Reasonable people can disagree about the nature and extent of Israel’s policies and responsibility for what President Obama describes as the “unbearable” condition of the Palestinians. But no reasonable person can compare it to the murders and rapes Hamas committed on October 7th. Yet that is precisely what Obama did. And in doing so, he provided ammunition to Hamas supporters who seek to justify the murders and rapes by pointing to the allegedly “unbearable” conditions under which they live. If a condition is “unbearable,” then it logically follows — at least for Hamas enablers and sympathizers, including those disrupting college campuses across the country— that there are no limits to what can be done to make it “bearable.”

One can be the most died-in-the-wool, blue blooded Democrat, yet be appalled by Michelle Obama’s hypocrisy and President Obama’s chutzpah. Hollywood will continue to fete the royal couple, just as predictably as it will continue to churn out nonsensical award acceptance speeches like Jonathan Glazer’s. We can set our watches by it.

Rest assured, however, that this is a war against all Jews, everywhere and anywhere. When Nigerian schoolchildren were abducted, Michelle Obama fought for their release and inspired countless others. Sadly, Jews do not seem to count among the well-heeled liberal elites of Washington or Hollywood. We can, and should, call out President Trump’s bad behavior, but the Obamas seemingly are rewarded with Netflix specials and perpetual get-out-of-jail-free cards.

My frustration has nothing to do with politics. It is with a world aligned against us, cowardly silence of those who know better, and reckless anti-Israel rhetoric which fuels our enemies. This is a time for taking sides; punting is not an option. Folks like the Obamas need to decide whether they only want to bring back girls who look like their daughters or take a more principled approach and call for the immediate release of all Hamas hostages. I am not holding my breath.

Instead, I will focus my efforts on praying for the immediate release of the hostages and calling out those for whom Jews don’t seem to count. Bring Them Home Now!

(Originally published in NJJN)

About the Author
My family has lived at the intersection of the three major American Jewish denominations - Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform Judaism. While I grew up attending a Conservative day school and Camp Ramah, my wife was raised in a Reform congregation and my siblings and cousins attended Orthodox yeshivot. Our three children have attended both Conservative day school and an Orthodox yeshiva, while growing up at Camp Ramah and attending a Conservative synagogue. I believe I bring an important perspective because of my experience living through the evolution of Conservative Judaism, while having immediate relatives attending (or having attended) Orthodox and Reform institutions. Moreover, as the head of the Israel Practice at a major law firm, I regularly visit Israel (and have numerous Israeli family, friends, and professional contacts across the religious and political spectrum), and have deep historic knowledge of the relationship between American and Israeli Jewry. My family also is active in Holocaust remembrance efforts and I am the grandson of survivors (3G). Thank you for reading my articles.