Moshe-Mordechai van Zuiden
Moshe-Mordechai van Zuiden
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Open Letter: A Proposal for a Wailing Wall (Kotel) Democratic Compromise

Dear Minister Tzachi Hanegbi,

Congrats on your newest job!

Please allow me to suggest a new idea that might solve the Kotel dilemma democratically.

Advantages of this plan are that it:

  • will give women’s and mixed groups their own spaces,
  • does not need more floor space (the archaeologists will like this),
  • costs hardly any money (everybody will like this),
  • can be implemented in a short time (everybody will like this),
  • does not try to make all the competing groups happy (they will have to make themselves happy – see below), and
  • will make all three groups so busy with promoting their own ideas and recruiting people that they will not have any time left to attack the ideas or activities of others.

Disadvantage of this plan is that it:

  • will only make the mixed group happy.


[Don’t say that people are no good for not coming to pray with you.] If the restaurant is good, people will come and eat there. – Reb Shlomo Carlebach

The plan is:

  1. To install two movable tall fences, each perpendicular to the Kotel, dividing the Wailing Wall Plaza into three square sections: male, female, mixed – left to right, in that order, when looking eastwards towards the Temple Mount.
  2. Only the police can roll these two locked fences from left to right and right to left. No one else will have thekeys.
  3. The police will move the fences (let’s say: when needed every half hour) such that the three sections will be a correct representation of the percentages of the groups actually present at each moment. For instance: if 45% is in the men’s section, 20% in the women’s section, and 35% in the mixed section, the police will set the fences so, that the men will have 45% of the space, the women 20% and the mixed group 35%.
  4. The men’s % will include the narrow but long cave on the left of the men’s section, and for that reason will never be smaller than 10%. The other two sections will never be narrower than 2 meters each. This so that even on a quiet night every section can accommodate some people who are just arriving.
  5. The Chief Rabbi of the Kotel is responsible that enough and kosher Torah and Haftatrah Scrolls for the middle and right sections will be kept in a storage place right of the mixed section.
  6. The Police will keep the order.

I hope this may inspire you. (I kept it short so that an assistant of yours might even show it to you.)

May you be successful!

About the Author
MM is a prolific and creative writer and thinker, previously a daily blog contributor to the TOI. He often makes his readers laugh, mad, or assume he's nuts—close to perfect blogging. As a frontier thinker, he sees things many don't yet. He's half a prophet. Half. Let's not exaggerate. He doesn't believe that people observe and think in a vacuum. He, therefore, wanted a broad bio that readers interested can track a bit what (lack of) backgrounds, experiences, and educations contribute to his visions. * This year, he will prioritize getting his unpublished books published rather than just blog posts. Next year, he hopes to focus on activism against human extinction. To find less-recent posts on a subject XXX among his over 1400 archived ones, go to the right-top corner of a Times of Israel page, click on the search icon and search "zuiden, XXX". 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He has written a lot about Psychology (including Sexuality and Abuse), Medicine (including physical immortality), Science (including basic statistics), Politics (Israel, the US, and the Netherlands, Activism - more than leftwing or rightwing, he hopes to highlight reality), Oppression and Liberation (intersectionally, for young people, the elderly, non-Whites, women, workers, Jews, LGBTQIA+, foreigners and anyone else who's dehumanized or exploited), Integrity, Philosophy, Jews (Judaism, Zionism, Holocaust and Jewish Liberation), the Climate Crisis, Ecology and Veganism, Affairs from the news, or the Torah Portion of the Week, or new insights that suddenly befell him. * Chronologically, his most influential teachers are his parents, Nico (natan) van Zuiden and Betty (beisye) Nieweg, Wim Kan, Mozart, Harvey Jackins, Marshal Rosenberg, Reb Shlomo Carlebach, and, lehavdil bein chayim lechayim, Rabbi Dr. Natan Lopes Cardozo, Rav Zev Leff, and Rav Meir Lubin. This short list doesn't mean to disrespect others who taught him a lot or a little. * He hopes that his words will inspire and inform, and disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed. He aims to bring a fresh perspective rather than harp on the obvious and familiar. When he can, he loves to write encyclopedic overviews. He doesn't expect his readers to agree. Rather, original minds should be disputed. In short, his main political positions are among others: anti-Trumpism, for Zionism, Intersectionality, non-violence, anti those who abuse democratic liberties, anti the fake ME peace process, for original-Orthodoxy, pro-Science, pro-Free Will, anti-blaming-the-victim, and for down-to-earth, classical optimism, and happiness. Read his blog on how he attempts to bridge any tensions between those ideas or fields. * He is a fetal survivor of the pharmaceutical industry (, born in 1953 to his parents who were Dutch-Jewish Holocaust survivors who met in the largest concentration camp in the Netherlands, Westerbork. He grew up a humble listener. It took him decades to become a speaker too, and decades more to admit to being a genius. But his humility was his to keep. And so was his honesty. Bullies and con artists almost instantaneously envy and hate him. He hopes to bring new things and not just preach to the choir. * He holds a BA in medicine (University of Amsterdam) – is half a doctor. He practices Re-evaluation Co-counseling since 1977, is not an official teacher anymore, and became a friendly, powerful therapist. He became a social activist, became religious, made Aliyah, and raised three wonderful kids. Previously, for decades, he was known to the Jerusalem Post readers as a frequent letter writer. 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