Allen S. Maller

Personal Autonomy vs. Jewish Minyans of 10

A minyan is a quorum of ten Jewish adults (13+ years old) required for certain communal prayers. Traditionally, it consists of at least ten men, but most communities now include women. The minyan is essential for reciting specific prayers, such as the Kaddish memorial prayer for the dead.

Minyan fosters a sense of community among the participants. Minyanim (plural) can take place in synagogues, homes, or other suitable locations. The concept emphasizes the importance of communal rather than individual prayer in Judaism. The learning of Bible and Hebrew for Bar and Bat Mitsvot gives Jewish children similar connections.

A major drive for personal autonomy, plus wanting not to have any limits on what we can do, and what we can believe, have made many people allergic to institutions. Memberships in many organizations — including veterans, scouting, fraternal, religious, parental and civic — have continued their long decline into the 21st century.

A new study finds that as church attendance dropped among middle-aged, less educated white Americans, deaths from drug overdoses, suicide, and alcohol-related disease began to rise.

The trend started years before OxyContin appeared, suggesting the opioid epidemic intensified a problem already underway and “deaths of despair.” deaths include fatalities linked to drug overdoses, suicide, and alcoholic liver disease. Researchers found a clear pattern at the state level. States that experienced the sharpest drops in church attendance between 1985 and 2000 also saw the largest increases in deaths from causes during the same period.

Widespread loneliness in the U.S. poses health risks as deadly as smoking up to 15 cigarettes daily, costing the health industry billions of dollars annually, the U.S. surgeon general said in declaring the latest public health epidemic. About half of U.S. adults say they’ve experienced loneliness, Dr. Vivek Murthy said in an 81-page report from his office. The loneliness epidemic is hitting young people, ages 15 to 24, especially hard. The age group reported a 70% drop in time spent with friends during the same period.

Loneliness increases the risk of premature death by nearly 30%, with the report revealing that those with poor social relationships also had a greater risk of stroke and heart disease. Isolation also elevates a person’s likelihood for experiencing depression, anxiety and dementia, according to the research. Research shows that Americans, who have become less engaged with religious worship, community organizations, and even their own family members in recent decades, have steadily reported an increase in feelings of loneliness.

The number of single households has also doubled over the last 60 years.

1. About 16% of adults, including around one-quarter of adults under 30, report feeling lonely or isolated all or most of the time, according to a 2024 survey by the Pew Research Center.

2. Just under half of Americans belonged to a religious congregation in 2023, a low point for Gallup, which has tracking this trend since 1937.

3. About 10% of workers are in a union, down from 20% four decades ago, the Bureau of Labor Statistics reports.

4. About one-quarter of Americans say most people can be trusted — down from about half in 1972, according to the General Social Survey

5. About two in 10 U.S. adults have no close friends outside of family, according to the “Disconnected” report. In 1990, only 3% said that, according to Gallup. About one-quarter of adults have at least six close friends, down from nearly half in 1990.

Technology has rapidly exacerbated the loneliness problem, with one study cited in the report finding that people who used social media for two hours or more daily were more than twice as likely to report feeling socially isolated than those who were on such apps for less than 30 minutes a day.

Religious studies and worship is one of the best ways to join with others. American adults who were raised as Hindus (82%), or Muslims (77%), or Jews (76%) were the most likely to remain in their childhood religion, the survey found; and 70% of people raised as Protestants still identify that way today, according to a Pew Research survey published on December 15, 2025.

Nationwide, only 56% of all Americans still identify with their childhood religion, while 35% have abandoned it, according to the survey of 9,000 US adults conducted in May. Another 9% weren’t raised with a religion, and still don’t have one today.

Retention rates were much lower among Catholics (57%), Latter-day Saints (54%) and Buddhists (45%), the study found. Americans who switch religions tend to do so early in life: 85% who have switched say they did so by the age of 30. This includes 46% who switched as children or teenagers.

Asked why they still identify as Jews, 60% of those who did said they like the traditions, and 57% cited liking the sense of community. About half of Jews said they stuck with the religion because it’s their family religion and/or because it’s something they’re familiar with.

That was different from how Catholics or Protestants answered the question. The most common reasons they cited for remaining in their religion included belief in the religions’ teachings, fulfilling spiritual needs, and giving meaning to their lives.

Jews gave these answers as well, with 45% saying they believe in the religion’s teachings and 42% saying it fulfills spiritual needs and brings meaning to their lives.

Among Americans who have left their childhood religion, the most commonly cited reasons were that they stopped believing in the religion’s teachings (46%). About a third said their religion’s teachings about social and political issues (34%) or scandals involving clergy or religious leaders (32%) were significant reasons for leaving their religion.

And a new study finds that as church attendance dropped among middle-aged, less educated white Americans, deaths from overdoses, suicide, and alcohol-related disease began to rise. The trend started years before OxyContin appeared, suggesting the opioid epidemic intensified a problem already underway, and “deaths of despair.” deaths include fatalities linked to drug overdoses, suicide, and alcoholic liver disease.

The researchers found a clear pattern at the state level. States that experienced the sharpest drops in church attendance between 1985 and 2000 also saw the largest increases in deaths from deaths of despair causes during the same period.

About the Author
Rabbi Allen S. Maller has published over 1100 articles on Jewish values in over a dozen Christian, Jewish, and Muslim magazines and web sites. Rabbi Maller is the author of "Tikunay Nefashot," a spiritually meaningful High Holy Day Machzor, two books of children's short stories, and a popular account of Jewish Mysticism entitled, "God, Sex and Kabbalah." His most recent books are "Judaism and Islam as Synergistic Monotheisms' and "Which Religion Is Right For You?: A 21st Century Kuzari" both available on Amazon.
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