Raiza

“Hello? Come see me. I am dying.”

I looked at the numbers displayed on my cell phone.

“Who is this?”

“Raiza. Come. I have cancer. The doctor says I will be dead in four or five days.”

I recognized her name. She was a woman I had met while researching an article about the visit of the Grand Mufti of Jerusalem to Auschwitz. Her voice instantly transported me to the Holocaust world of my parents, a world that I resisted and to which I was drawn. I would read voraciously, engage with the dwindling number of survivors and their children but I drew a line. I would never ask about what they had seen or heard or thought. Unlike some descendants and even survivors, I decided that I would never visit Auschwitz. I knew that the moment that I saw the narrow, rust colored bricks, I would become unwound and that the ghosts of the tortured, gassed and burned souls would fill my consciousness.  The image of my maternal grandparents, Samuel and Esther Husz, the sight of the electrified fence, its concrete posts weirdly curved inward like bent index fingers, so feared by my mother, would have stilled me.

“Come.”

I deflected her, unable to believe that someone could pick up the phone and say “Come see me. I am dying.”

“I want you to come to my funeral.”

I tried to follow her, assess what she was saying.

Were her words the result of drugs, mental decline?

But I knew Raiza to be highly intelligent, forceful, honest.

I had met her six months earlier when I had visited her Boca Raton  condominium to interview her.

I had downloaded photos of the Grand Mufti, printed them and went to see her.

I found a small, elegantly dressed woman.

Her apartment had tile floors and plastic covered furniture.

A Haitian aide bustled in the kitchen.

We talked for two hours.

She had had many health problems but seemed to have overcome them all.

She had one, child, a son. A doctor.

He lived in Connecticut.

She had been married twice.

She had met her first husband after she was liberated from Bergen Belsen and had married him the same day.

“The same day?” I asked, wide-eyed.

“We were alone.  We had nobody.”

He had died in a car accident in Belgium, she told me.

She had re-married in America.

To my astonishment and perhaps hers, she was from the same town as my maternal grandmother.

Miseve, Romania.

Her father was from my mother’s town, Ruscova, Romania.

She had been deported to Auschwitz at the same time as my mother.

She had been a slave laborer as had been my mother.

I mentioned several names.

Mallek. Pollak. Genuth.

She recognized every name.  She pronounced Genuth, Ghneth.

I was incredulous that I should have been directed to her at a time when my own mother could no longer talk and I continued to mourn the recent death of my father.

Her Romanian Yiddish accent was comforting, familiar.

I thought of my mother’s sisters, Frida, Charna and Dvora, how wonderful they had been to me, shielding me from the horrors of what they had witnessed, loving me, delighting in me, encouraging me, offering me whatever they had, food, praise, presents.

Keep speaking, Raiza, I thought.

I showed her the photos of the Mufti.

She said that the man she saw had had a beautiful uniform.

I was confused.

Who was she talking about?

The Mufti was depicted as wearing a tall, white turban and sweeping caftan.

She could easily have identified the man she saw in Auschwitz as the man in the photograph and I could have gone on to write the article about it, but she didn’t.

She was a fierce guardian of her memories, even if they didn’t fit the narrative.

She would call me from time to time.

She would wish me a Happy New Year, a Happy Chanukah, though I privately believed that she no longer a practicing Jew, a proud Jew, yes, but a Jew who no longer proselytized, tried to convince anyone.  She had seen too much.

Then, I received the call.

Before I hung up, I promised to come see her.

She mumbled the name of the nursing facility.

I wrote it down.

A day or so later, I looked it up. One entry resembled the name she had given me. The telephone number she had used and the listed number were the same.

Another day went by.

Sunday.

The weather was exceptionally beautiful.

“I am going to Boca Raton,” I told my teenage daughter.

“Why?”

“I am going to visit a friend.”

So I drove south.

I had left the directions at home but somehow, I found my way.

I pulled into the parking lot of the one story nursing home surrounded by mature trees that dropped their brown leaves on the lawns and walkways, where they remained, uncollected.

I hated it.

I hated all nursing homes.

My father hated the nursing home into which he had moved shortly before his death.

But I knew I had to compose myself.

I parked at the rear of the facility.

Uniformed workers sat outside.

They spoke loudly and rapidly in Caribbean cadence.

“Excuse me,” I asked, “where is the entrance?”

One woman pointed, head bowed over her cell phone.

“Thank you,” I said.

I walked past wheeled racks of food trays and entered through the sliding glass door.

So much for security, I thought.

I wondered why I had come.

I knew that Raiza was an insightful, far-seeing, exceptional woman.

When I had visited her in her apartment, I unexpectedly found myself speaking of my own heartache, of the divisions in my family.

“Ssh,” she said when I finished, putting her narrow finger to her lips. “There is nothing you can do about it.”

We sat at her dining room table, moving from English to Yiddish and back again.

“Accept it.”

I felt that the act of telling her things I had told no one, could no longer tell my father or my mother, had been a resolution.

“Okay,” I said. “I will.”

I went to the reception desk and asked for Raiza’s room number.

I continued on.

And there she was, sitting in a hospital bed, thin but well groomed, eating lunch.

“Here I am,” I said.

She acted as if she knew that I would come.

I sat on her bed, facing the window.

“I’m dying,” she said.

“No,” I insisted. “It’s not for you to say.”

“The doctor told me.”

“What kind of doctor would say such a thing?”

“Four or five days.”

“Ssh,” I said. Don’t say that. You will invite the Malach HaMavis.”

We started to talk.

She said that she had witnessed 530 English soldiers gassed in Auschwitz. She said that 100s of girls had been forced to march in the snow and that only 20 something had survived.  Only she didn’t say 20 something.  She said the exact number.  She spoke so much that my mind could not absorb what she said.  She said that she had been the victim of medical experiments, that all her blood had been drained.

“How could you live if all your blood was drained?”

She didn’t answer.

I showed her a cell phone photo of my maternal grandmother and my paternal great-grandmother, taken in Ruscova in 1943, at a time when my mother said they were “already auf tsouris”.

“That is exactly how my mother looked, she said, “with the tichel”.

“I know we are related somehow,” I told her.

She agreed.

She spoke about her first husband, a Polish Jew, that he “he looked like Robert Taylor”, about how they had waited for years to be able to immigrate to America, how they had moved to Belgium, how she had discovered that he was having affairs with other women and how she had left him, taking their 13 year old son.

“He never wanted to divorce me,” she said somewhat proudly. “I divorced him.”

She had forgiven him, it seemed, looked at him fondly.

“He died in a car accident.”

“They didn’t have seat belts in those days,” I added incongruously.

“I came here with my son.  He never caused me any problems.  He got scholarships.”

“Eat,” I said. “It is getting cold.”

An aide entered the room.

Raiza spoke to her in French.

“I don’t speak French,” the woman said.

“Creole?” I asked.

“No. I am from the Bahamas.  My parents are Haitian but I was born in the Bahamas.”

“I speak French, Flemish, Spanish, Yiddish, Hungarian, Romanian and Polish,” Raiza said, as she left.

“You are a strong woman.”

“I’m dying.”

“You’ll show them.”

“I want to live,” she said.

We sat silently.

“Are you in pain?”

She shook her head.

“They give me drugs.”

I stood and pulled down her soft sky colored tee shirt that had risen, exposing her ribs.

I pointed to the flat screen television hanging on the wall.

“Do you watch?” I asked.

“Never.”

Her gray hair was beautiful.

Straight.

Well cut.

It resembled a Garboesque bob.

“I was 18 when we were taken away.”

“My mother was 19,” I said.

I couldn’t imagine how she had survived.

She had seen everything. What had sustained her? I did not ask.

“I was more dead than alive when we were liberated. On April 15.”

“My mother said that her gums had covered her teeth.”

“I couldn’t talk.”

The words tumbled out of both of us, a desire to share her experiences, my recollection of my mother’s history. I talked and talked. I became my mother as I sat on Raiza’s bed facing the dark trees and the sunlight and the running stream outside her window.

Her phone rang.

“Mon avocat,” I heard her say

She handed me the phone.

“My son.  You speak to him.”

I took the phone.

An accented voice said “Hello?”

I spoke rapidly.

“I am not here as a lawyer,” I said, “we are friends”.  I gave him my name and phone number.

I heard his sad voice, felt his fear and love for his mother, their unique bond.

She had told me that he had been in Boca Raton with his wife and children for four days and then gone back to Connecticut.

“We’re probably related,” I said.

He laughed.

Children of survivors delight at that expression.

I told him to call me if he needed anything.

I handed the phone back to Raiza.

She joyfully spoke with her son.

I stood up, whispering, “I have to go.”

“I love you,” she said.

 

RAIZA first appeared bangalorereivew.com.

About the Author
Elaine Rosenberg Miller writes fiction and non-fiction. Her work has appeared in numerous print publications and online sites, domestically and abroad, including JUDISCHE RUNDSCHAU, THE BANGALORE REVIEW, THE FORWARD, THE HUFFINGTON POST and THE JEWISH PRESS. Her book. FISHING IN THE INTERCOASTAL AND OTHER SHORT STORIES will be published by Adelaide Books in 2019.
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