Danielle Sobkin

Rekindling Jewish Joy and Embracing Our Roots

There seems to be a fading sense of Jewish identity. Once-vibrant traditions have started to feel like obligations, and identifying as Jewish has become more of a pain point than a cause for celebration. This trend, though alarming, is not entirely surprising in our rapidly globalizing world. But it is a trend that needs our attention. The essence of Jewish joy is too precious to let slip away.

The Shift in Jewish Identity

The Jewish community has always been resilient, surviving millennia of challenges and emerging stronger each time. Our holidays, rituals, and traditions have been the backbone of our identity, serving as markers of our history and our faith. However, the current generation, caught between the allure of modernity and the weight of tradition, often feels a disconnect. For some, Judaism feels more like a relic of the past rather than a living, breathing culture.

This is not to say that young Jews are abandoning their faith or their heritage. However, there is a noticeable shift towards a more secular and cultural identification, rather than a religious one. In trying to fit into the broader societal framework, there seems to be a dilution of what was once a robust sense of Jewish pride and joy.

The Price of Losing Jewish Joy

Losing touch with our Jewish joy has implications beyond just religious observance. Our holidays, stories, and traditions are not just rituals; they are the tapestry of our collective memory. They remind us of our roots, our struggles, and our victories. By sidelining these practices, we risk losing a vital part of who we are.

The fall in Jewish joy has led to a diminished sense of community. The beauty of the Jewish community has always been its warmth. Without these moments, we risk becoming isolated, both from our heritage and from each other.

When we talk about our holidays, we aren’t just talking about days on a calendar. Pesach isn’t just about matzah and the Seder plate, and Hanukkah isn’t just about the menorah and latkes. These holidays transport us back in time, connecting us to ancestors we’ve never met, and to stories of resilience that have been passed down through the ages. They remind us of where we come from and provide context for where we are today.

Community, in many ways, is the embodiment of this collective memory. It’s where these stories come to life. The Jewish community, in particular, has thrived on its sense of togetherness. From the shtetls of Eastern Europe to the bustling streets of Jerusalem, the sense of belonging to something bigger than oneself has been a cornerstone of Jewish life.

However, as the joy and engagement with our traditions decline, so does our sense of community. Without the shared experiences of holidays and rituals, without the stories that remind us of our shared history, the ties that bind us begin to loosen. The warmth that was once a hallmark of the Jewish community risks being replaced by a cold void.

Isolation, both from our heritage and from each other, is the natural outcome of this decline. Without the shared moments of joy, sorrow, and reflection that our traditions offer, we risk becoming strangers to our own history and to each other. A community is not just a group of people living in proximity; it’s a group of people sharing experiences, memories, and values. Without our traditions, that shared foundation begins to crumble.

Reclaiming Our Heritage

It’s crucial, now more than ever, to recognize the value of what we risk losing. Our traditions and stories are not just relics of the past but tools for building a vibrant, cohesive Jewish future. 

Society is in constant flux. Values shift, cultures merge, and identities are redefined. Amidst these waves of change, the Jewish community finds itself at a critical juncture. The traditions and stories that have been the bedrock of Jewish identity for millennia now face the risk of being overshadowed. However, these traditions are not just vestiges of a bygone era; they are invaluable tools that can guide and shape a dynamic, united Jewish future.

Our traditions are not stagnant; they are living testaments to our resilience, adaptability, and unwavering spirit. They have evolved with us, bearing witness to our journey through history, from the exodus from Egypt to the establishment of the state of Israel in 1948. These traditions encapsulate collective wisdom garnered from diverse experiences across different epochs.

The rituals of Shabbat aren’t just about lighting candles and blessing wine. They are a profound testament to the value of rest, reflection, and community bonding. Similarly, the Passover Seder isn’t merely a meal; it’s a narrative of liberation and hope that resonates even in modern struggles for freedom and justice.

Stories as Bridges

Our stories serve as bridges, linking generations past, present, and future. They are vehicles through which values, lessons, and aspirations are transmitted. The tales of Abraham, Sarah, Moses, and Esther, among others, are not just historical accounts but parables that offer insights into leadership, faith, sacrifice, and resilience. They provide context and guidance for contemporary challenges, ensuring that the new generation doesn’t have to start from scratch but can build upon the legacy of those who came before.

The Path Forward

Recognizing the intrinsic value of our traditions and stories is the first step towards harnessing their potential. I challenge every person reading this to reach out to a Jewish friend, neighbor, or colleague and ask them about a cherished Jewish tradition or story that has shaped their life. Engage in a dialogue, not just as a passive listener but as an active participant, eager to understand and connect. This simple act can serve as a bridge between cultures, foster mutual respect, and deepen bonds of friendship.

It’s not just about preserving Jewish traditions but about celebrating human experiences. Every culture, every community has its stories and rituals that carry profound meanings, and by taking the time to understand them, we enrich our own lives. It’s an invitation to step into someone else’s world, even if just for a moment, and see the universe through their eyes.

To our Jewish friends, I urge you to share, with pride and joy, a piece of your heritage. Whether it’s the beauty of Shabbat, your love for Israel, the significance of the menorah, the lessons from the story of Esther, or the melodies of a Passover song. Your stories are not just about the past; they are tools that can shape a more inclusive, understanding future.

In a world where division seems all too common, such dialogues can be a beacon of hope. They remind us that beneath the surface, despite our varied backgrounds and beliefs, we all seek understanding, connection, and a sense of belonging. Let’s embrace this challenge as an opportunity to grow closer, to learn, and to celebrate the shared human spirit that binds us all.


With Hope for a Shared Future,


About the Author
Danielle Sobkin is a student at the University of California, Berkeley pursuing a double major in Data Science and Economics. With a deep connection to the global Jewish community, she has served on the Hillel International Student Cabinet (HISC) and works as a Data Scientist with Jewish on Campus (JOC). As the daughter of Soviet refugees and a first-generation student, Danielle draws inspiration from her unique background and aims to connect with others through her writing. She is passionate about conveying the importance of Jewish Joy in everyday life and creating a more inclusive and understanding community.