It’s been said over and over again. Homosexuality is unnatural because two men or two women having sex cannot create babies — so it’s broken sex. And also the opposite is alleged. Homosexual is beastly. It’s just giving in to lust as animals do. (It’s like calling Jews the bankers and the communists.) And now for some counterarguments.
Homosexuality might be unnatural for you but for homosexuals, it’s exactly what they need to break their seclusion. If it’s within a mutually nurturing relationship, it just kills any existential loneliness. (Just as it does for heterosexuals in a heterosexual relationship.)
(I don’t call homosexual all those who have sex with their own gender. Only those who need someone of their own gender to sexually bond.)
Actually, homosexual partnership or sex has been observed in at least a hundred species of animals. So much for being unnatural.
Actually, beasts don’t have sex when they feel like it. When a female is capable to conceive, it sends signals to males and they’ll have sex to procreate. It has very little to do with pleasure. So, actually, animalistic sex is for creating babies, not for the relationship, pleasure or fun.
Most of the time, humans have sex to cement their relationship. As recommended early-on in the Hebrew Bible (Genesis 2:24). The same Scripture that strictly forbids men to have sex with a man instead of with a woman (so, addressing heterosexual men only) (Leviticus 18:22).
One has to be seriously secular to assume that G^d must be making a mistake to have more than a million homosexual Jews (5%) and almost half a billion homosexual Gentiles around at the present. That’s not a mistake anymore — that’s a plan. G^d creates nothing without a purpose.
There are three giant problems among many heterosexual couples. Not in yours, of course, but in many others. 1. Sexism. 2. Lack of empathy for the kids. 3. Incest. Many (closeted) homosexual friends and therapists have saved heterosexual marriages. Many (closeted) homosexual teachers are helping out our students like no one else. No child raised by homosexual couples has to cope with childhood sexual abuse. These are yardsticks for heterosexuals couples and signs that they urgently must learn from them.
For sure, it further unites a couple when they receive children with aspects of both partners and when they raise children together, making it easier for heterosexuals. It is outright cruel and stupid when a society won’t facilitate that homosexuals can marry, be teachers and parents. And it is ungrateful to withhold from them what they may give you: a happy relationship, kids who stay seen and happy, with sexual safety for them.