Alan Flashman

So big

Look how big we have become.

Headlines, TV, tiking and toking

Billions, missiles, Nobels, –

We have no time

For little things –

 

Like the little children in Sderot

Who have not slept a night

In 10 months;

 

Like the little ones of Ofakim

Who have not stepped out to play

Since that sheltered terrifying morning;

 

Like the little ones of kibbutzim

Who have lost home, friends

Family, community

Walking around dazed

Too frightened to close the bathroom door;

 

They are little things.

So what if CBD could help them if that is bad for business?

So what if Hosen treats no one under 4 or 5 years old?

So what is there is no central treatment facility

On anyone’s radar?

So what if their parents have to scramble

Just to renew their disability

If by chance it lingers more than a year?

SO what? Small things….

Anyway won’t vote for years…

 

We have a word, a big beautiful one, 

Comes with a face anyone can put on:

“RESILIENCE!”

It sounds so strong, 

Like our glasses clinking

As we toast ourselves

On how big we are.

 

“Look how resilient kids are!”

Subtext: Don’t look, turn away.

 

The Lord turned Balaam’s curse to a blessing.

Big deal!

We are so big

We have turned a blessing

To a curse.

 

You little resilient ones

You are so amazingly resilient

You can go straight to hell

On your own.

About the Author
Alan Flashman was born in Foxborough, MA, and gained his BA from Columbia, MD from NYU, Pediatrics, Adult and Child Psychiatry specialties at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, The Bronx, NY. He has practiced in Beer Sheba since 1983, and taught mental health at Hebrew University, Tel Aviv University and Ben Gurion University. Alan has edited readers on Therapeutic Communication with Children (2002) and Adolescents (2005) in Hebrew, translated Buber's I and Thou anew into Hebrew, and authored Losing It, an autobiography, and From Protection to Passover. He recently published two summary works of his clinical experience (both 2022) Family Therapies for the 21st Century and Mental Health in Pediatrics and a short novel in Hebrew "NO WAY!" about the abuses of "parental alienation" in Israel.
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