Sofya Tamarkin

The Beautiful Hues of Jewish People – Diversity and Unity Intertwined

On my last trip to Israel, I spent time praying at the Kotel, the Western Wall. When I was done, I asked a woman behind me to take a picture so I could look back at this special moment. It was weeks after my return home to Philadelphia that I discovered the significance of this photograph. Without realizing it at the moment, the picture captured the diversity of our nation, united in one communal heritage. Standing to the left of me was a Chassidic woman, immersed in prayer. Even though I don’t know her personal story, I imagine that she comes from a religious background. Wearing a head turban, a long robe and stockings, she represents her particular Chassidic customs. On my left side was a secular dressed girl, in jeans and wearing a backpack. She embodies today’s Jewish youth, navigating the modern-day world and her spiritual calling. Ironically, the photo captures me in the middle of this religious spectrum. Born in the former Soviet Union under the Communist regime, I have slowly embraced my Jewish identity, taking upon myself one mitzvah at a time. Despite obvious differences, all three of us are united by the intrinsic connection to Jewish heritage. We arrived at this holy place from very different journeys, yet our inner compass continues to lead us home.
The Ethics of the Fathers reads, “Man is beloved because he was created in the image of G‑d.” (Avot 3:18) Looking at this unexpected photograph, I realize that the concept of an ‘image’ doesn’t mean any particular ‘look’ but rather immortal, inner voice that binds us to our Creator and our people.

Throughout our history, we lived in different cultures and therefore were raised in unique backgrounds and so each person has unique dispositions and inner struggles. Some come from spiritually privileged upbringing, while others were deprived of positive role models. This reality underscores the intrinsic value of every person, despite external differences.

Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks reiterated this point in his profound teaching. “Jewish life is a sustained countervoice. To be a Jew is to know that this cannot be a full story of who I am. A melody is more than a sequence of disconnected notes. A painting is something other than a random set of brushstrokes. The part has meaning in terms of its place within the whole, so that if history has meaning, then the lives that make it up must in some way be joined to one another as a character in a narrative.”

Looking at the image from the Kotel, where women from three diverse backgrounds come together in one communal prayer, I see each one of us as an integral component of communal Jewish destiny. This narrative celebrates both individuality and unity of our nation. Because we are millions of hearts, beating to one harmonized rhythm.

About the Author
Sofya (Sara Ester) Tamarkin is a writer for Chabad.org, Aish.com, and the Times of Israel. She draws inspiration from the journeys of people seeking meaning in their Jewish heritage. Born in the former Soviet Union, Sofya discovered she was Jewish at the age of 10. After immigrating to the United States in 1989, she received a blessing from the Lubavitcher Rebbe and embarked on a journey, rediscovering her Jewish identity. Her unconventional journey included lessons from missionaries, learning to light Shabbat candles from Barbara Streisands's movie Yentl, and gaining profound wisdom during an encounter with President Mikhail Gorbachev. Her life is a proof that Light can be found in the most unlikely places. Sofya holds an MBA degree and manages an orthopedic company. She is a yoga teacher and a Certified Life Coach. Mrs. Tamarkin is the author of three Jewish children’s books in Russian. Sofya is a “storyteller” who participates in national storytelling events. Having traveled to 90 countries, Sofya learns from diverse life experiences of people she meets. Sofya's mission is to collect 'sparks' and to celebrate our communal Jewish destiny.
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