Anchelle Perl

The Compass of Life: Why Mission Matters More Than Success

Find Your Center Before You Draw Your Circles

A young man once asked the Lubavitcher Rebbe for advice about his future.

The Rebbe told him: stay in yeshivah for now. Study. Strengthen your character. Find your purpose.

The young man pressed back. Why this advice?

The Rebbe handed him a pencil. “Draw a perfect circle.”

He tried. He failed. “Impossible,” he said.

“What would you need?” the Rebbe asked.

“A compass.” The Rebbe gave him one. The circle came out flawless.

“And what made it possible?” “The compass had a center point,” the young man answered.

The Rebbe nodded. “Exactly. Life is the same. We may draw many circles—careers, relationships, achievements. But unless they orbit a center, a clear sense of purpose, the circles will always be jagged. Before you start drawing more circles, find your center.”

That lesson may be more urgent today than ever. We live in a world overflowing with choices and distractions. Everyone is busy, but not everyone is headed somewhere. The result? Brilliant people scattered across too many circles, without a center to hold them together.

That’s why companies spend so much time crafting mission statements. They know that without a clear purpose, even the smartest workforce drifts. Disney’s mission is just 17 words long: “To entertain, inform, and inspire people around the globe through the power of unparalleled storytelling.” It tells you what they do, who they serve, and how they do it. Two hundred thousand employees can line up behind that one compass point.

If Disney needs a mission statement, so do we. Jewish tradition teaches that every person is born with a unique mission: to uncover sparks of holiness hidden in the world, to bring more light into creation. The collective mission is shared. The way you fulfill it is yours alone.

Your personality, your talents, your relationships, your opportunities—these aren’t random. They’re the raw material for your purpose. Your compass.

Without that compass, life feels like drawing in the dark. With it, every circle connects.

So here’s the challenge: Don’t just think about your mission—write it down. A single sentence. One that ties together who you are, what you’re good at, and how you can leave the world brighter than you found it. Put it somewhere you’ll see it every day.

Because life is short. The circles are many. And the only way to draw them whole is to find your center.

About the Author
Rabbi Anchelle Perl is the Director of Chabad of Mineola, Long Island, New York, and serves as a chaplain for the Nassau County Correctional Center and NYU Langone Long Island Hospital. He is a commissioner on the Nassau County Human Rights Commission and hosts the weekly “Jewish Talk” program on 90.3 WHPC.
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