Avi Mayer
Writer, commentator, and advocate

Today I Learned a Life Lesson from a Sixteen Month Old

Two weeks ago, 16-month-old Yotam Sitbon and his young mother, Yael, were waiting at a crowded bus stop in Jerusalem when a Palestinian driver veered from his lane, drove onto the sidewalk, and rammed his car into the crowd. Yotam was flung from his stroller by the impact, landing in the street some distance away. His mother, Yael, was also wounded. Both were evacuated to a nearby hospital, where his condition was initially classified as “moderate.” Shortly after his arrival, though, his condition deteriorated, and he was immediately taken to another hospital for surgery. For several hours, doctors operated on Yotam’s leg, attempting to save it. Ultimately, however, they were forced to amputate it just below the knee.

This morning, I went to visit Yotam and his family at the hospital. I found a happy, sweet, playful boy tumbling around on a hospital bed. What remains of his leg is still bandaged; a long, thin tube connects it to a machine. His father, Binyamin, told us he had another operation yesterday in hopes of saving his knee.

Yotam will probably not remember the moment a stranger tried to kill him. He had just started taking his first steps. If all goes well, he will again learn to walk, and perhaps even run — this time with a prosthesis. His family, his community, and his nation will envelop him with love along the way.

Hours after the attack, his father spoke to the media. “He is my firstborn son,” he said. “I hope he starts smiling again.”

Binyamin Sitbon’s modest, heartfelt wish has come true. Yotam is smiling, and his beautiful, contagious smile lights up the room.

It’s not every day I learn life lessons from toddlers, but I did today.

May we all find the strength to pull ourselves out of that which has caused us pain over the past year, may we learn to overcome our handicaps and our losses, and may we all enter the new year with a smile.

Happy new year from Jerusalem.

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Avi Mayer is a writer, commentator, and advocate. With a Twitter following of over 130,000 and a monthly audience in the millions, Avi is considered one of the most prominent millennial voices in the Jewish world. He lives in Jerusalem. Learn more at