Lavi Zamir

Turning Resilience into a National Resource

For over two weeks, Israel has awoken again to the sounds of war: Sirens, rushing to bomb shelters, and the distant flashes of explosions have become an unwelcome part of our reality once more.

In times like these, it is natural for our minds to think first and foremost about security.

But there is another front that demands equal attention: The people of Israel’s emotional endurance, that unseen battlefield where anxiety, fear, and stress take hold of the hearts of individuals, families, and communities.

The current conflict may resolve quickly, or end up being prolonged, but either way, every missile, every red alert, every night spent awake listening for sirens notches the emotional resilience of our society.

Resilience at Scale: A National Advantage

At the organization I lead, Path for Tomorrow (Bshvil Hamachar in Hebrew) –an nonprofit dedicated to helping IDF reservists process battlefield trauma and reintegrate into civilian life through nature-based group retreats – I’ve worked with thousands of soldiers, mostly combat reservists, many of whom have returned home carrying invisible wounds, not immediately recognized by others, not easily spoken about, but deeply felt.

I myself was one. Some struggle silently with the memories. Others are unable to sleep through the night without reliving moments they wish they could forget. What I learned, again and again, is that the bravest among us are not just those who face danger, but also those who find ways to carry on afterwards.

However, in a traumatic period like this, when the whole country is under sustained stress, we cannot rely on a handful of trained professionals or isolated programs to support the entire population. What we need is an army of resilient civilians and veterans alike who know how to help others cope, who can turn their own experience into a source of strength for everyone. This is not about minimizing pain; it’s about expanding support networks so that more people feel seen, heard, and cared for.

We have seen this power in action at Path for Tomorrow.

I myself have witnessed countless veterans who once felt alone in their struggle now become a source of comfort for newly returning soldiers; mothers who have learned to process their own fears, and in doing so, become a calming presence for other parents; teachers who once couldn’t articulate their stress, who have now learned to guide their students through their own fears.

The Power of Shared Experience

When large numbers of people learn how to support others, the effect is profound. Resilience becomes contagious, not in the sense of hiding pain, but in the sense of normalizing support and equipping people with real tools to cope. Someone who has learned how to speak about stress in a healthy way can model that behavior to others. Someone who has found meaning and balance after trauma can help others see that there is a path forward.

This isn’t about psychological theory, it’s a practical resource, one that can strengthen workplaces, neighborhoods, families, and social networks at a time when formal mental health systems are already stretched to their limits by the demands of war.

With the backdrop of missile barrages, this sort of citizen-powered resilience is vital. It means that when sirens wail, people don’t collapse in panic; they help each other stand. When the news shows explosions and rising casualty figures, neighbors don’t retreat behind closed doors; they form circles of support.

A National Call to Strengthen Each Other

The Israel of tomorrow will be shaped not only by how we fight on the battlefield, but by how we care for one another in the quiet moments between sirens, during late-night conversations huddled in communal bomb shelters, and in the shared ritual of showing up for someone who needs it.

Imagine a world where every community has trained listeners, where every workplace has peer support networks, where families know how to talk about fear and anxiety in healthy ways, and where veterans’ hard-earned resilience becomes a resource for others. That kind of collective strength, forged in hardship and shared through compassion, is what will see us through this war and what will prepare us for the challenges that come after it.

We must make resilience not just a personal achievement, but a national asset. Because when enough of us have the capacity to support someone else, to be the person who says, “I’ve been there, and we can get through this together,” we create a fabric of mutual care that no external threat can unravel.

For those who believe in building that kind of resilience across Israeli society, organizations like Path for Tomorrow are working to make it a reality, helping reservists and communities turn experience, hardship, trauma, and shared struggle into sources of strength for others. Those who wish to support or become involved in this effort can learn more here.

Israel has faced existential challenges before. Our nation has endured wars, terror attacks, prolonged uncertainty, and devastating loss. The lesson we keep relearning is this: Strength isn’t just about surviving conflict – it’s about standing through it together, and, through our togetherness, coming out even stronger.

About the Author
Lt. Col. (Res.) Lavi Zamir is the CEO of Path For Tomorrow (Bshvil Hamachar), a nonprofit specializing in guided healing journeys for IDF reservists, helping them process their combat experiences and cope with the invisible scars of war. Lavi is an IDF combat officer in the army reserves who has served more than 400 days in the military since the outbreak of the war. He is married to Dalit and the father of four.
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