The first thing many Jews want is to live in peace and not be rejected (or embraced) because of antisemitism.
The second thing many Jews want is individual. Many have their own dream, to become the best singer, the best parent, the best ice skater, the best physician, the best factory worker, etc. they could be.
The third thing many Jews want is a meaningful life. Many are ambitious (not necessarily to make money) to contribute. On the whole, Jews are an industrious People. Much jealousy (a core motive for antisemitism) towards Jews comes from seeing the success of Jews but not recognizing how hard they (or their parents) worked for it.
The fourth thing many Jews want is to be seen as (both Jewish and) human. Jews are not lesser human (Nazi ideology), not super-humans (tell it Evangelicals), and not from outer space. Jews are exceptional but as humans, they are nothing special. (This fits Judaism that has a specific set and a general set of rules. Jews must keep and celebrate Shabbat, eat only kosher, eat matzos on Passover, pray as a Jew, etc.; and Jews must honor their parents, support the socially weak, not waste, be responsible, etc.)
The fifth thing Jews want is Allies against the oppression. We don’t deserve to be blamed for it, nor for the scares antisemitism gave us: “Everyone is against us” / “We don’t need to be so cautious — people mean well.” Jews do not deserve to be shielded against oppression any bit less than any other oppressed person or group, but also not as the last one to be supported. Jews are simply bad at ending antisemitism. (It’s not the responsibility of Jews to end this hatred, just as women aren’t responsible to end sexism, but Jews are so motivated but fail at it.) Allies should understand the lies and misunderstandings that support antisemitism.
The sixth thing Jews want is no more distance or infighting between different groups of Jews. Survival of antisemitism and of Jewish disunity go hand-in-hand. While it seems impossible for Jews to stop people from hating them, Jewish unity should be worked for.