Ben Lazarus

Yeshayahu: The Prophet Who Knew How to Comfort

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When I was starting to become religious, there was a man at our synagogue. His name does not matter. I knew almost nothing about him: not where he lived, not his age, not his family story. Only that he was a German Jew, a yekke of the classic kind, precise about everything, and that every single week he walked a very long way to shul, arriving at exactly the same time, at exactly the same moment. Every week of the year except two: this week, Re’eh, and the week before, Eikev, his summer break. Even his absence was precise. You could set the calendar by him.

I never learned why he walked so far or what the walk cost him. But his regularity told me something no sermon could: consistency is a form of care. Showing up, week in and week out, unspoken and unadvertised, was his devotion, and to a boy finding his way into Jewish life it was a real comfort. I have been thinking about him this week, because the Jewish calendar is in the middle of teaching exactly that lesson.

Three weeks of grief carried us down into Tisha B’Av. And now the calendar prescribes not three weeks of comfort in return, but seven: the shiva d’nechemta (the seven weeks of consolation), marked by seven haftarot (prophetic readings) of comfort, read every Shabbat until Rosh Hashana. Comfort, it seems, takes more than twice as long as mourning. This week’s haftarah is the third of the seven, and it opens not with reassurance but with a problem:

עניה סערה לא נחמה

“Afflicted one, storm-tossed, not comforted.” (Yeshayahu 54:11)

Two weeks of consolation have already been read, and Zion is still not consoled. The comfort has not worked. Anyone who has ever tried to comfort a mourner knows this moment: the sentence that sounded right in your head falls flat in the room, and you face a choice, retreat into safe silence or stay and try again. For me personally the process is very tough. I want to suggest that this failure is precisely the point, and that it explains why the Sages chose one particular prophet, and only him, to carry all seven of these weeks.

Every one of the seven haftarot of consolation is drawn from the book of Yeshayahu (Isaiah). He is not a guest in this season; he owns it. The Rabbis teach that his father Amotz was the brother of King Amatziah of Judah, which would make Yeshayahu royalty: a prophet who walked the corridors of power as an insider, not an outsider throwing stones over the wall. And he used that access to deliver some of the harshest social criticism in all of Tanach (the Hebrew Bible). To a society that was on the one hand scrupulously observant, offering korbanot (sacrifices) and filling the Temple courtyards. However, he said that G-d was not interested:

למדו היטב דרשו משפט אשרו חמוץ שפטו יתום ריבו אלמנה

“Learn to do good; seek justice, strengthen the oppressed, defend the orphan, plead for the widow.” (Yeshayahu 1:17)

Yet the same mouth that delivered that rebuke later speaks the most tender sentence in the prophetic canon:

כאיש אשר אמו תנחמנו כן אנכי אנחמכם

“As one whom his mother comforts, so shall I comfort you.” (Yeshayahu 66:13)

How can one man be both of these voices? The answer is that they were never two voices. Rabbi Sacks taught that the prophets criticised Israel always, and only, out of love. The rebuke and the consolation come from the same place: a refusal to give up on the Jewish people. Yeshayahu did not comfort them because he thought nothing was wrong. He comforted them because, despite everything that was wrong, he refused to believe their story was over.

The voice of the Three Weeks and the voice of the Seven

Here is the question at the heart of this week. Yirmiyahu (Jeremiah) also loved his people. Yirmiyahu also promised restoration: he bought a field while Jerusalem was under siege to prove that Jewish life would return to the Land. We met him just a few weeks ago, the prophet called to be faithful rather than successful. So why is he the voice of the Three Weeks, and Yeshayahu the voice of the Seven? The Gemara answers with a startling economy of words. Explaining why the books of the prophets are ordered as they are, so that destruction sits beside destruction and consolation beside consolation, it says:

ירמיה כוליה חורבנא יחזקאל רישיה חורבנא וסיפיה נחמתא וישעיה כוליה נחמתא

“Yirmiyahu is entirely destruction; Yechezkel begins with destruction and ends with consolation; and Yeshayahu is entirely consolation.” (Bava Batra 14b)

Yechezkel (Ezekiel), the prophet of the exile, moves from ruin to rebuilding over the course of his book. But the Gemara places Yirmiyahu and Yeshayahu at the two poles: one whose core focus is destruction from beginning to end, the other consolation. The two stood at different moments in history, and that difference shaped everything. Yirmiyahu was the eyewitness. He watched Jerusalem burn, and his grief is the grief of a man standing inside the ruins. His hope is real, but it always emerges from within the mourning, which is exactly why we need him for the Three Weeks: consolation that begins too early is not consolation at all.

Yeshayahu stood a century before the destruction, and his gift was different. He could see the catastrophe coming with complete clarity, name every failure that would cause it, and still insist that the failure was not the end of the story. Yirmiyahu teaches us how to weep when the world is breaking. Yeshayahu teaches us to believe it can be rebuilt. The calendar needs both, in that order, and it gives the rebuilding more than twice the time it gives the breaking.

A man of unclean lips

But there is a deeper reason the comfort had to come from Yeshayahu specifically, and it begins with the worst sentence he ever said. At the moment of his calling, overwhelmed by the vision of the divine throne, he cries out:

אוי לי כי נדמיתי כי איש טמא שפתים אנכי ובתוך עם טמא שפתים אנכי יושב

“Woe is me, for I am undone; for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell among a people of unclean lips.” (Yeshayahu 6:5)

The confession about himself was accepted. The words about his people were not. A seraph flies to him and touches his mouth with a burning coal, and the tradition never let go of that second half of the verse. Generations later, when the wicked King Menashe had Yeshayahu put to death, the Sages record that death came at the moment the blade reached his mouth: the very organ that had spoken against his people, measure for measure, for having called them impure of lips. A prophet may rebuke Israel when commanded. He may never hold them in contempt. Yeshayahu learned that distinction at the very start of his career, in fire, and he spent the rest of it on the right side of the line. That is what qualified him. Comfort is only credible from someone who told you the truth and never once despised you.

Hineni

And notice what he did the moment his lips were cleansed. G-d asks whom to send, and Yeshayahu answers before he knows what the mission is: Hineni, shelacheni (here I am, send me). The very next verses tell him the bitter truth: most people will not listen. His answer was not confidence of success. It was the acceptance of responsibility without any guarantee of results. That, it turns out, is exactly the qualification a comforter needs. Because comfort fails. This week’s haftarah says so out loud: lo nuchamah, not comforted. The Abudraham, the medieval commentator on the liturgy, cites a Midrash that reads the seven haftarot as a single unfolding conversation. G-d first sends the prophets to comfort Zion, and she refuses. The prophets report back that she is not consoled. So G-d Himself draws closer and says: I, I am the One who comforts you. And only in the seventh week does Zion finally answer: I will rejoice in G-d. Nowhere in that sequence is Zion rebuked for refusing to feel better. The failed first attempt is not a breakdown of the process. It is the process. The comforter simply stays, and speaks again, a little closer than before.

Destruction can happen in a day. Consolation cannot. That is why the calendar gives it seven weeks, and why it hands all seven to the one prophet who embodied both halves of the skill: the courage to say the hardest things, and the humility to keep showing up when the gentle things do not work. Yeshayahu never found the perfect sentence. He found something better. He stayed beside his people until they could speak for themselves.

Which brings me back to the old man from my childhood. He hardly said a word to me, although we walked side by side on many occasions. I do not think he knew my story either. But comfort does not always arrive as the perfect sentence. Sometimes it walks a very long way, week in and week out, at exactly the same time, and simply keeps arriving. That is not only devotion. It is a model of how human beings should care for one another.

About the Author
I live in Yad Binyamin having made Aliyah 19 years ago from London. I have an amazing wife and three awesome kids, one just finishing a “long” stint as a special forces soldier, one at uni just married and one in high school. A retired partner of a global consulting firm, a person with a diagnosis of PSP (Progressive Supranuclear Palsy) and an advocate. I have just published 4 books on Amazon and my blog on PSP can be seen at www.benlazpsp.com
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