Returning to Life: Land, Sacrifice, and the Covenant of Renewal – Chaye Sara
Returning to Life: Land, Sacrifice, and the Covenant of Renewal
Chaye Sara
The story of Ofir Tzarfati’s family — caught in the cruel theatre of hostage recovery and false hope — touches a deeper chord in the story of Israel itself. As reported in the Times of Israel, Hamas told the Tzarfati family that their son’s body had been recovered, only for the IDF to later clarify that the remains were not his. “How can you bury your child in installments?” asked Ofir’s mother, Rachel.
It is a heartbreaking question — and one that echoes far beyond a single family’s grief. It asks what it means to belong to a land so filled with holiness, heartbreak, and hope. It asks what kind of people we must become to continue living and loving here, even after so much loss.
The Land as Covenant, Not Accident
The Jewish people’s link to the Land of Israel is not an accident of history; it is an act of faith, deed, and permanence.
When Avraham purchases the Me’arat HaMachpelah — the Cave of the Patriarchs — in Bereishit 23, he is not simply looking for a burial plot. He is making the first legal acquisition of land in Canaan, turning divine promise into human commitment.
“וַיִּשְׁמַע אַבְרָהָם אֶל־עֶפְרוֹן, וַיִּשְׁקֹל אַבְרָהָם לְעֶפְרוֹן אֶת־הַכֶּסֶף”
“Abraham listened to Ephron, and weighed out for him the silver.” (Genesis 23:16)
Rashi explains that Abraham insists on paying “the full price” (בְּכֶסֶף מָלֵא, 23:9) so that no one could ever say it was a gift. Ramban adds that Abraham refused the gift in order to translate divine promise into concrete, human action. Sforno calls it “קניין גמור בארץ המובטחת” — “a complete acquisition in the promised land.”
This first transaction of faith transforms land from prophecy into possession, from dream into destiny. The Torah repeats the word ויקם — “was established” — to teach that the field of Ephron rose in status, from ordinary earth to eternal inheritance.
From Uganda to Zion
When early Zionist leaders debated the so-called Uganda Plan, the question was not merely geographical but theological. Could Jewish sovereignty exist anywhere other than Eretz Yisrael?
Theodor Herzl himself — though pragmatic at times — wrote in Der Judenstaat:
“The idea which I have developed in this pamphlet is an ancient one: it is the restoration of the Jewish State.”
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For Chaim Weizmann, the answer was clear:
“There is a country which happens to be called Palestine, a country without a people, and, on the other hand, there exists the Jewish people, and it has no country. What else is necessary, then, than to fit the gem into the ring, to unite this people with this country?”
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And Rav Avraham Yitzhak HaCohen Kook (Orot HaKodesh II) lifted the argument to a spiritual plane:
“ארץ ישראל איננה דבר חיצוני, קניין חיצוני לאומה… היא עצם קשור בקשר חיים עם מציאות האומה.”
“The Land of Israel is not something external to the nation… it is bound with the very essence of its existence.”
Our return to the land is not a matter of strategy but of soul. The Uganda proposal was rejected not because the land was uninhabitable, but because it was unholy. Only in Zion could the covenant of Abraham breathe again.
October 7 and the Renewal of Covenant
The massacre and abductions of October 7, 2023 ripped open Israel’s heart. Families live in the liminal space between grief and uncertainty — between empty beds and unfinished prayers.
And yet, as Rav Soloveitchik wrote in Kol Dodi Dofek, “Suffering does not cancel the covenant; it awakens it.” The covenant after tragedy is not erased — it is renewed.
We are called, as Abraham was called, to rise from before our dead and to rebuild.
“וַיָּקָם אַבְרָהָם מֵעַל פְּנֵי מֵתוֹ” (Genesis 23:3) — “And Abraham rose up from before his dead.”
He rose to purchase, to secure, to affirm life. So must we.
A Daughter’s Story: Two Funerals, One Commitment
My daughter and her husband, both soldiers in Israel, attended two funerals in two days — one for a fallen member of her unit, and one for a fallen member of his.
On the first day, she stood beneath a pale Jerusalem sky as a flag-draped coffin was lowered into the earth. The bugle cut through the silence, the prayers rose and fell like sobs. Dust lifted in the air, and her hands trembled as she reached for her friend’s mother.
“שְׁמַע ה’ קוֹל בִּכְיִי” (Tehillim 39:13) — “Hear, O Lord, my cry.”
The next day, he stood among his comrades at Har Herzl — rows upon rows of white stones, each bearing a name, each name a world. When the final salute was given, and the nation’s anthem played, no one moved. The silence was sacred.
That night, they walked home together. Two funerals in two days, two flags folded, two young lives gone. And yet, the next morning, the sun rose again over the Jerusalem hills.
Through their tears, they learned that this land — though too often a place of burial — must also be a place of life. To live here is to keep faith with those who can no longer do so.
“וְהָיָה הַשָּׁלוֹם מַעֲשֵׂה הַצְּדָקָה” (Yeshayahu 32:17) — “The work of righteousness shall be peace.”
Bookends of Parashat Chayei Sarah
This week’s Torah portion, Chayei Sarah, begins with the death of Sarah and ends with the death of Abraham. Between those two deaths lies the story of the first Jewish purchase of land — an act of hope in the shadow of loss.
Rashi (on Bereishit 23:1) asks why Sarah’s death is placed immediately after the Akedah, the binding of Isaac. He answers: because Sarah died from grief at the thought of her son’s near sacrifice. Even our matriarch’s story begins in loss.
But Abraham’s response to loss is not despair — it is action. He rises, he negotiates, he purchases, he plants a future.
Like Abraham, we too must rise. Between the deaths of our ancestors, our soldiers, and now our hostages, there lies a single thread — the human act of reasserting life.
From Burial to Song
The land of Israel must never be merely a cemetery for the fallen. It must be a place of life.
“עוֹד יִשָּׁמַע בְּעָרֵי יְהוּדָה וּבְחוּצוֹת יְרוּשָׁלַיִם קוֹל שָׂשׂוֹן וְקוֹל שִׂמְחָה” (Yirmiyahu 33:10–11) — “Again shall be heard in the cities of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem the voice of joy and gladness.”
We will honor the dead by choosing life. We will teach Torah, plant trees, raise children, sing songs. We will insist that Israel’s essence is not mourning but meaning.
“כִּי מִצִּיּוֹן תֵּצֵא תוֹרָה וּדְבַר ה’ מִירוּשָׁלָיִם” (Yeshayahu 2:3) — “For from Zion shall go forth Torah, and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem.”
At Har Herzl, I have seen both the unbearable grief of parents and the quiet strength of soldiers who will not yield. There, amid tears and songs, I have witnessed the living covenant renewed in the dust.
From Abraham’s purchase of Machpelah to Herzl’s vision, from Weizmann’s gem and ring to my daughter’s silent salute — every generation reclaims the covenant of life in this land.
Israel must not be a place of burial, but a place of song, not of sorrow but of strength. A place of discovery, even in the sadness of loss.
“וְשָׁבוּ בָנִים לִגְבוּלָם” (Yirmiyahu 31:17) — “And the children shall return to their own borders.”
May we return — to life, to hope, to each other.
