Zimra Vigoda

The morning after

I feel numb. I need to start working but I can’t motivate myself to get dressed. Maybe another black coffee from my rainbow flag cup will help.

It’s the Morning After and the People have had their democratic say.

They chose the path of corruption. They chose the winds of war. They chose religious coercion and bigotry. They chose incitement against anyone and everyone who is the “other” – Arab citizens and leftists, alike.

Arabs are a Fifth Column, they say.

Leftists are traitors, they say.

Where does that leave me? I am a leftist.

It’s the Morning After.

5:30 AM to be exact.

I am at the central bus station, watching my combat soldier son walk away for the long trip back to base. Tears roll down my face for the first time since his enlistment. I am a leftist and a proud mother of young men who eagerly defend their country. Until yesterday, in my mind, these two identities coexisted side-by-side but today is different. The People have had their democratic say and they chose corruption, division and bigotry. I stand confused and sad.

It’s the Morning After.

7 AM.

I feel numb. I need to start working but I can’t motivate myself to get dressed. Maybe another black coffee from my rainbow flag cup will help.

It’s the Morning After.

8 AM.

I force myself to shower and get all prettied up and sit by my computer.

It’s the Morning After.

It’s work time.

I continue writing a grant proposal for a different group of People – those still believing in HOPE for a better future for ALL children in Israel.

“Shared Learning” is an educational approach advancing partnership between schools from the various educational streams and concentrating on a common geographic region with the purpose of improving educational outcomes and bringing together the various groups comprising Israeli society. The approach is was initially developed in Northern Ireland, based on the historical conflict between Catholics and Protestants and within a decade has become and integral part of their government’s public educational policy.  XXXX (to protect the integrity of the organization in these times of McCarthyism) adapted the model to the Israeli reality, particularly to the challenge of two separate languages and the understanding that the Israeli-Palestinian conflict is yet to be solved.

Shared learning is based on Allport’s Contact Theory according to which direct contact between groups in conflict may effectively decrease stereotyping under the following conditions:

  • Equal status among all participants
  • Common goals
  • Continuous, good relationships
  • Institutional support

At the heart of joint learning are the following:

  • Betterment of the relationships between groups while preserving the unique identity of each group
  • Active coping with racism and stereotyping
  • Meaningful learning in particular subjects while emphasizing 21st century skills such as empathy, multi-cultural capacity and teamwork
  • The empowerment of teachers as experts in specific subjects and as agents of change.

It’s the Morning After and the People have had their democratic say. Evidently, TODAY is not that day but…may TOMORROW bring equal status, tolerance, and understanding to all  citizens of Israel.

About the Author
Zimra Vigoda was born in Budapest and raised in New York City. After immigrating to Israel in the 1990s, she spent over two decades leading and advising nonprofit and public sector initiatives, with a focus on education, civil society, and cross-cultural engagement. She holds a law degree from Cardozo School of Law in New York and has worked at the intersection of advocacy, strategy, and social impact throughout her career. In recent years, Zimra has transitioned into the private sector, where she continues to support mission-driven ventures in Israel and internationally. She lives in the Negev with her family and is the mother of four. Her personal journey—particularly as the mother of a son with a disability who plays for Israel’s national wheelchair basketball team—has made her a passionate supporter of Paralympic sports and disability inclusion. Drawing from her experience as a Hungarian-born Jew, an immigrant, and a mother, Zimra brings a deeply personal perspective to questions of identity, truth, and belonging—shaped by a life lived between cultures, always fitting in, yet never entirely at home.
Related Topics
Related Posts
Sign in or Register
Please use the following structure: example@domain.com
Or Continue with
By registering you agree to the terms and conditions
Register to continue
Or Continue with
Log in to continue
Sign in or Register
Or Continue with
check your email
Check your email
We sent an email to you at .
It has a link that will sign you in.