Moshe Manheim

When ‘Defense’ Means Absorbing Fire

In recent debates over military aid to Israel, a new distinction has taken hold: support for defense, but not for offense.

At first glance, it sounds reasonable—even principled. Defensive systems save lives. Offensive weapons escalate conflict. Who wouldn’t prefer one over the other?

But this distinction collapses under even modest scrutiny. Because in practice, it does not mean “defense versus offense.” It means something far more consequential: allowing a country to intercept incoming attacks, while restricting its ability to stop those attacks at their source.

That is not a strategy. It is a posture of managed vulnerability – at Israel’s expense.

No nation at war operates this way. Not the United States. Not NATO. Not Ukraine, which continues to receive Western support not only to defend its cities, but to strike Russian supply lines, command centers, and staging areas. The logic is straightforward: a country cannot defend itself indefinitely by absorbing blows. At some point, it must degrade the enemy’s capacity to inflict them.

Israel now finds itself in a different category.

Since October 7, it has faced sustained attacks not only from Hamas in Gaza, but from Hezbollah in Lebanon, militias in Syria and Iraq, and the Houthis in Yemen—all part of an Iranian-backed network designed to pressure Israel from multiple directions. This is not a series of isolated skirmishes. It is a coordinated, multi-front campaign.

Under these conditions, the idea that Israel should limit itself primarily to defensive measures is not restraint. It is a demand that it fight a war it cannot win.

This shift reflects a broader change in how parts of the Western political class understand conflict. War is increasingly framed not as something to be won, but as something to be managed—contained, de-escalated, kept within acceptable bounds. The goal is not resolution, but stability.

That framework may be appealing in theory. In practice, it assumes that one’s adversaries share an interest in containment.

Israel’s adversaries do not.

Hamas did not launch the October 7 attack in pursuit of limited gains. It targeted civilians deliberately and openly. Hezbollah’s arsenal is not defensive; it is designed to overwhelm Israeli population centers. Iran’s leadership has been explicit, repeatedly, about its long-term objective: the elimination of the Jewish state.

Against such actors, the distinction between “defense” and “offense” becomes artificial. Intercepting rockets without dismantling the infrastructure that launches them does not resolve the threat. It prolongs it.

The consequences are not only military—they are strategic.

Deterrence depends on credibility: the belief that aggression will be met with a response that imposes meaningful cost. When that credibility weakens, conflict does not stabilize. It expands. Adversaries test limits. Pressure increases. The cycle accelerates.

We have seen this dynamic before. When threats are treated as manageable rather than decisive, they tend to grow until they can no longer be managed at all.

None of this implies that Israel—or any country—should act without constraint. The use of force carries moral and practical responsibilities, particularly in densely populated environments. Civilian harm is a real and serious concern.

But there is a difference between constraint and incapacity.

The current approach risks crossing that line—supporting Israel’s ability to survive attacks, while constraining its ability to end them. That is not balance. It is imbalance by design.

It also raises a broader question: why this standard, here?

Other democracies facing aggression are supported in both defending themselves and degrading their enemies’ capabilities. Israel, increasingly, is encouraged to do only the former. The justification is often framed in humanitarian terms. But humanitarian outcomes are not improved by prolonging wars that could otherwise be shortened.

If anything, the opposite is true.

The deeper issue is not a single vote or policy decision. It is the emerging assumption that Israel’s wars must remain unresolved—that decisive outcomes are inherently suspect, and that ongoing conflict is preferable to conclusive victory.

That is a dangerous assumption.

Because wars that are not allowed to end do not remain contained. They persist, adapt, and eventually escalate.

And for a country surrounded by adversaries who have made their intentions clear, the ability to do more than absorb fire is not optional.

It is the essence of self-defense.

About the Author
Bio: Moshe Manheim practiced and taught psychotherapy for over 40 years. He is the author of Elsie’s Boys and has written on culture, antisemitism, language, and public discourse for numerous outlets.
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