Nitzan Bergman

When to Be Flexible and When to Stand Firm

The rigid and flexible

Lech Lecha introduces us to one of the most extraordinary figures in human history. The Rambam calls him “the pillar of the world,” and God calls him “My beloved.” We know him as Avraham Avinu — Abraham, our father — a name that carries reverence across the world.

What makes Avraham so remarkable is his balance of unshakable conviction and remarkable flexibility. His faith in the one God and his rejection of idolatry never wavered. Yet, the very first thing we learn about him is his willingness to adapt: God tells him, “Lech Lecha — Go forth from your land…” and immediately upon arriving, he must leave again because of famine.

So how do we know when to be flexible and when to stand firm?

The body offers a metaphor: the skeletal core is rigid, giving strength and stability, while the muscles are flexible, allowing movement and adaptation. Likewise, our core principles must remain solid, but we must stay flexible in how we live them out.

The Ten Commandments were engraved in stone — eternal and unchanging truths. The Torah’s 613 mitzvot, written on parchment, express those truths through dynamic human application — full of nuance, exceptions, and context, as explored in the Talmud.

As our attention shifts from the war in Gaza, Israel’s internal challenges are again coming to light. The question remains: is what’s needed now more flexibility — or a renewed agreement on the solid core of who we are and what we stand for?

About the Author
Originally from South Africa, I finished school and university in England (Economics at the University of Manchester) and learned for many years in yeshivot in Israel, where I received Smicha from Rabbi Dov Schwartzman Z"L, I taught in the Center Program for Yeshiva Ohr Sameach in Yerushalayim and was a Pulpit Rabbi in Cape Town South Africa for 3 years. I currently live in Baltimore, where I run Aseret Global.
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