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Lori Prashker-Thomas

Choosing Not to Celebrate Rosh Hashanah Traditionally

Happy and Sweet New Year - Traditional apples and honey - This design was created on Canva.com on September 15,, 2023. It is copyrighted by Lori Prashker-Thomas/ShadowCatcher Photography (Paid Subscription)
Happy and Sweet New Year - Traditional apples and honey - This design was created on Canva.com on September 15,, 2023. It is copyrighted by Lori Prashker-Thomas/ShadowCatcher Photography (Paid Subscription)

In a world that celebrates diversity and respects individual choices, it’s essential to understand that not everyone partakes in the same religious or cultural traditions. As someone who does not celebrate Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, in the traditional sense, I want to share my perspective on why I make this choice and why others should refrain from passing judgment.

Respect for Different Beliefs – One of the cornerstones of a harmonious society is respect for the beliefs and practices of others. My decision not to celebrate Rosh Hashanah traditionally has changed over the years and is rooted in my personal beliefs and values, which may differ from others in the Jewish faith. It’s important to acknowledge that people come from diverse backgrounds and belief systems, and that’s what makes the world so wonderfully unique.

Cultural and Religious Freedom – Freedom is a fundamental human right, and this includes the freedom to practice or not practice any religion or cultural tradition. Rosh Hashanah holds profound significance for Jewish individuals, but it may not resonate with everyone. By respecting my choice not to celebrate Rosh Hashanah in the traditional sense, we honor the principle of religious and cultural freedom that underpins modern societies.

Personal Circumstances – Many factors can influence an individual’s decision regarding religious observance. Personal circumstances, life experiences, and family dynamics all play a role. For some, the choice not to celebrate Rosh Hashanah may be deeply personal, stemming from past experiences or unique family histories. It’s crucial to recognize that we don’t always know the reasons behind someone’s choices, and that’s okay.

Promoting Inclusivity – Inclusivity means welcoming people of all backgrounds and beliefs into our communities without judgment. By not judging someone for choosing not to celebrate Rosh Hashanah in the traditional manner, we foster a more inclusive and accepting society. It’s a testament to our ability to coexist peacefully, despite our differences.

Encouraging Open Dialogue – Rather than making assumptions or passing judgment, it’s far more productive to engage in open and respectful dialogue. If you have questions about why someone does or does not celebrate a particular holiday, ask them. Constructive conversations can lead to greater understanding and empathy, bridging gaps and fostering connections.

In a world that celebrates diversity and cherishes individual freedoms, please remember that not everyone observes the same religious or cultural traditions. My decision not to celebrate Rosh Hashanah traditionally is a personal one, rooted in my beliefs and circumstances. I believe it’s equally essential for others to respect and refrain from judging this choice. By promoting tolerance, respecting freedom of choice, and encouraging open dialogue, we can build a more inclusive and harmonious world where everyone’s choices are valued and accepted.

שָׁנָה טוֹבָה וּמְתוּקָה – however you may celebrate!

About the Author
Lori Prashker-Thomas has always been a creative soul and free spirit, never imagining that “author” would one day grace her resume. An award-winning author, Lori released her memoir, From Mistakes To Miracles: A Jewish Birthmother’s Story of Redemption, Hope, and Healing, in October 2022. In addition to her writing, Lori has over 20 years of experience as a legal secretary and paralegal. She is the Co-Owner and Photographer at ShadowCatcher Photography, LLC, where she works alongside her husband, Michael. Lori also serves as the Owner and Certifed Professional Wedding Officiant of Ceremonies by Lori and is a passionate speaker, writer, and advocate, focusing on her experiences as a Jewish birthmother and challenging the stigma surrounding adoption, domestic violence and suicide survival. Lori is also director of her non-profit organization, I Picture Hope, a proud board member of the NEPA Pride Project, and the winner of the 2024 Ally of the Year award presented by the Rainbow Alliance
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