Dear PM Netanyahu,
When I was 21, I spent a blissful summer in Jerusalem, studying at Hebrew University’s Rothberg International School. As I left with a little more Hebrew under my belt and a deeper love for Eretz Yisrael in my heart, I promised myself I would one day return.
Five years later, I formally converted to Judaism and chose the name Aliyah. Contemplating the possibility of one day making aliyah and living as a Jew in “the Jewish State” brought me a feeling of euphoria. Your heartfelt calls to “young Jews around the world” to come to Israel because “This is your country. This is your birthright” spoke to the core of my budding Jewish neshama.
Yet the more I looked at the state of affairs on the ground, the more it disheartened me to realize that Jews like myself seemed more free to live out our Jewishness outside the Jewish State.
As your abandonment of the Kotel Agreement yesterday showed, your commitment to ensuring that Israel be a state for all Jews is something you are willing to deem “dispensable” in order to secure your political clout with Ultra-Orthodox factions who continue to assert their monopoly not only on Jewish marriage, divorce, burial, and conversion, but also on Jewish prayer at one of Judaism’s holiest sites.
You ask us to “[t]ell others about the miracle of Israel, this rare and thriving democracy in the Middle East.” Yet, after stalling for over a year to fulfill your promise and implement the Kotel Agreement, your move yesterday was one of cowardice and definitively showed young Jews in the Diaspora like myself — the majority of whom are not Orthodox — that we have a better chance of living out our version of Judaism at home in our own shuls and communities, where women are free to read from Torah and pray beside our families and worship Hashem in a manner that is authentic to us, as opposed to in the “Holy Land,” where Jewish women are booed and whistled at and arrested at Judaism’s holiest site for praying in the manner they deem authentic.
As a young Jewish woman, I cannot help but feel connected to Eretz Yisrael. However, I also cannot help but wonder how much longer you will continue to take that feeling for granted. How much longer will Israel’s relationship with Diaspora Jews be strained over these matters? How much longer will you continually ask for our undying support and fealty, while simultaneously keeping our expressions of Judaism at bay?
Mr. Netanyahu, this Kotel Agreement concerns much more than a physical prayer space at the Wall. It concerns the type of state you wish for Israel to be: a state where Jewish fundamentalists cry down other Jews for not worshiping as they do, or a state where Jews of all traditions are welcomed and free to pray and worship Hashem as their consciences dictate?
“Young Jews around the world” like myself await your response, and remember, actions speak louder than words.