Sabine Sterk
CEO of Time to Stand Up for Israel

The Danger of Distant Judgments

Photo Credits: Sabine Sterk @Masada
Photo Credits: Sabine Sterk @Masada

In the Netherlands, where I live, public discussion about Israel often feels unusually certain. People speak with confidence about a conflict far away, in a region most have never visited and whose realities they know only through screens. That distance matters more than we like to admit.

After October 7, when Hamas carried out its attack on Israeli civilians, the initial shock was widely acknowledged. But what followed in much of the public discourse was something more complicated: the focus quickly shifted away from what had happened, and toward the response that followed. The framing changed almost immediately, and with it, the emotional direction of the conversation.

I noticed this not only in media coverage, but in everyday conversations.

The events themselves were often no longer the starting point. They became background material. At the center of this shift is a broader problem: how information is received, filtered, and emotionally processed in real time.

We now live in an environment where images travel faster than context. A single photograph or clip can define an entire narrative before verification or history enters the conversation. In that process, complexity is often the first casualty. This is particularly visible when it comes to Israel. Its actions are rarely interpreted within the constraints of its security environment. Instead, they are often viewed in isolation, detached from the conditions that shape them.

That does not mean criticism is illegitimate. It is not. Any state engaged in military action should be scrutinized. But scrutiny requires completeness. It requires that all relevant actors be part of the picture.

One aspect that is frequently underrepresented in public debate is the nature of Hamas as both a governing and military entity. It operates within civilian infrastructure in Gaza, a reality that has been widely documented. This creates an environment where the boundaries between military and civilian spaces are intentionally blurred. Whatever one’s political perspective, that structural reality has consequences. It complicates every military decision and every civilian outcome. Yet in many discussions, that complexity is either minimized or removed entirely.

I have also been struck by how uneven global attention can be. Conflicts in other regions—some with devastating civilian tolls—rarely generate the same sustained public focus in Europe. This does not make one tragedy more important than another. But it does raise a question about consistency in moral attention.

Why do some conflicts become defining moral reference points in public discourse, while others remain peripheral?

There is no single answer to that question. Media dynamics, historical associations, and political symbolism all play a role. But the result is an environment in which Israel is often treated not just as a state under scrutiny, but as a symbol onto which broader frustrations are projected.

That distinction matters.

Because when symbolism replaces analysis, nuance disappears. And when nuance disappears, so does the ability to understand why events unfold the way they do.

None of this is an argument for abandoning criticism or for avoiding difficult questions. On the contrary, it is an argument for strengthening them. Criticism is most meaningful when it is grounded in context rather than reaction.

The challenge today is not access to information. There is more than enough of it. The challenge is discernment—knowing how to separate what is emotionally compelling from what is actually representative.

In that sense, the real task is not to speak louder, but to see more clearly.

If there is any conclusion to draw, it is this: complexity does not make moral judgment impossible, but it does make simplistic judgment unreliable.

And in a conflict as layered and emotionally charged as this one, reliability matters more than certainty.

About the Author
CEO of Time to Stand Up for Israel, a nonprofit organization with a powerful mission: to support Israel and amplify its voice around the world. With over 200,000 followers across various social media platforms, our community is united by a shared love for Israel and a deep commitment to her future. My journey as an advocate for Israel began early. When I was 11 years old, my father was deployed to the Middle East through his work with UNTSO. I had the unique experience of living in both Syria and Israel, and from a young age, I witnessed firsthand the contrast in cultures and realities. That experience shaped me profoundly. Returning to the Netherlands, I quickly became aware of the growing wave of anti-Israel sentiment — and I knew I had to speak out. Ever since, I’ve been a fierce and unapologetic supporter of Israel. I’m not religious, but my belief is clear and unwavering: Israel has the right to exist, and Israel has the duty to defend herself. My passion is rooted in truth, love, and justice. I’m a true Zionist at heart. From my first breath to my last, I will stand up for Israel.
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