Three Years After October 7: What I Wrote Then, and What I Know Now

This week marks three years since the “hell on earth” of October 7. In those first weeks, I wrote three short pieces from inside the war. I have just reread them, and I barely recognise the man who wrote them. He was angry, grieving, and certain of very little except that he had to be in uniform.

Hell on Earth

The first piece was not mine. It was a message from my friend Ralph Lewinsohn, a fellow tour guide who came to Israel from Namibia and raised two generations of his family on Kibbutz Kfar Azza, a few hundred meters from Gaza. (I spent my years as a “Lone Soldier” in Givati at the Kibbutz over the road, Kibbutz Sa’ad.). Thirty-six hours after the massacre began, he wrote what he had survived. Terrorists ran past his house, shooting without pause. His emergency response team was nearly wiped out. For hours he had no idea whether his daughter was alive. Soldiers finally broke in through his window, and in the seconds before they spoke, he did not know whether they were rescuers or killers.  He then describes the moment the IDF evacuated him from his house:

They collected us in small groups, and under heavy guard, led us to buses, which eventually evacuated us out of the war zone. There was constant heavy fire around us, and we had to take cover in a bunker for a while. On the way to the buses, we passed tens of burnt-out vehicles, bodies lying in the street, RPG launchers, AK47 rifles, grenades etc.

One detail has never left me. A friend’s grandchildren hid in a cupboard in a room with the bodies of their family, while a social worker stayed on the phone with them for hours until soldiers arrived. Ralph ended with a lesson from his African childhood: a wounded animal is the most dangerous of all.

Three years on, I still think about those children. They would be older now, carrying a childhood that ended in a cupboard. When people talk about “the events of October 7” as if they were a political abstraction, I think of that telephone line and the person who refused to hang up.

In the City of Slaughter

A few days later, I walked through the ruins of Kibbutz Be’eri with soldiers from my unit. Standing among the burned homes, I thought of Bialik’s poem “In the City of Slaughter,” written after the 1903 Kishinev pogrom, in which he begged his readers to go and see with their own eyes what had been done to Jewish families, and to feel the horror on the walls. Bialik wrote about the “normality” of killing Jews and the world’s indifference:

“For God called forth the spring and the slaughterer together:

The sun shone, the Acacia blossomed, and the slaughterer slaughtered.

Forty-nine Jews were killed in Kishinev, and it shook the Jewish world. On October 7, well over a thousand were murdered, burned, tortured, and abducted. Yet the feelings Bialik captured were exactly the ones I had in Be’eri: disbelief at human evil, the horror of innocents slaughtered, and the sense that the world was looking away.

But I also wrote then that there was one crucial difference, and I believe it more strongly now. The Jews of Kishinev had no army, no state, and no way to protect their children. We do. The Jewish people are not helpless, and “never again” is a promise we must keep with our own hands.

Good People

The third piece was about my unit, a PALMAR reserve medical extraction force of doctors, paramedics, combat medics, and fighters, stationed on the Gaza front. It came to my mind then that a Naomi Shemer song about “good people” described them exactly. People who know the way, and with whom you can keep walking.

Good people in the middle of the journey,
Very good people.
Good people know the way,
And we can continue walking with them.

I wrote about a lone soldier who came from Argentina to fight, a medic who cut short a trip to India after two weeks, a paramedic with three children in the army who had donated a kidney and aged out, and a doctor who flew in from London, leaving a sick wife and four small children. All of them came voluntarily, from every corner of Israeli society, with every religious and political view. We argued about nothing, because there was only one thing that mattered.

I quoted Shakespeare then: “There is a tide in the affairs of men which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune.” Reading it now, I would add that the tide also takes things from you. Those students, parents, and professionals gave up years of their lives. Some gave everything.

Where We Are Today

What I did not know in those first weeks was that I would still be wearing the uniform three years later, in the same unit. I have spent over two years on the Gaza front and just under one year on the Lebanon front. PALMAR units have carried out more than 3000 evacuations, over 400 of them by helicopter. I wrote a book about it, Heroes of Palmar, because the stories deserved to be told.

What I got right then, I think, was the unity. I wrote that it took a war for us to find it, and I hoped it would last after victory. I will be honest: outside the army, it has frayed. In moments of respite, the noise of the world comes in, and the contrast with the camaraderie inside our ranks hurts. But I have also seen what holds when it counts. Religious and secular, left and right, new immigrants and sabras, Jewish and non-Jewish stand shoulder to shoulder, and no one asks how you vote when someone is bleeding.

What I got wrong, perhaps, was thinking the hardest part would be the fighting. The hardest part has been the waiting, the funerals, and the world’s hate and indifference, which has often been worse than I feared. In those first weeks I was shocked that so many would side with the murderers. Three years on, I am no longer shocked, only sadder.

Yet Ralph’s wounded animal has not run away. We are still here. The Jewish people have a homeland and the strength to defend it, and I would not have believed, on October 6, 2023, how tested that strength would be, or how much of it there was.

Three years later, I carry the memory of Be’eri, the children in the cupboard, and the soldiers who volunteered from everywhere. I carry them the way we carry the wounded, to safety, and I will keep doing so.

Am Yisrael Chai!

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Dr. Tuvia Book currently serving on IDF reserve duty.  He is the author of  Heroes of Palmar: How one IDF Unit Revolutionized Combat Medicine in Gaza.  It is published by Gefen Publishing House and is available either from gefen.com or Amazon.com.  He also authored  “For the Sake of Zion, A Curriculum of Israel Education” and “Jewish Journeys” books on both the First Temple and Second Temple periods (Koren).  In addition, Tuvia is a much sought after public speaker and is a Ministry of Tourism licensed Tour Guide, Jewish educator and a Judaica artist. www.booktuvia.com.