And those who once or never were friends
First of all, there are true friends with the Jews. Nothing can make them lessen their close, warm, and dependable friendship and allyship. They will stand with us through thick and thin. They can be in any antisemitic group, in the Egyptian parliament, the IJC, etc. Not only are they a relief. They also form a possibly unintended indictment against all those who fail us.
Don’t blame Peoples for their leaders or leaders for their Peoples. Each can be great or awful with Jews. There’s no one-on-one connection.
First, some Peoples and leaders are loving us for generations and hundreds of years. Pacific Islanders and Filipinos still fondly remember the Marranos.
Then there is the vast majority of the German People. It learned its lesson. Twenty percent is still Nazi, but the rest will not let them approach power. Excesses and mistakes happen but are always followed by counteraction by demonstrations, political actions, apologies, and sometimes new laws. One of its politicians could say Israel must accept a Two-State Solution, but as soon as they see that’s the same as the Final Solution, they’ll apologize.
Then Peoples are with us, but their leaders may not be. Turkey, Lebanon, Iran, the USA, the Pope. They may have an Antisemitic press, Antisemitism, and even Antisemitic leaders, but the constituents are with us. (Biden is really pro-Israel, but the anti-Israel electorate is breathing down his neck. Trump was a pro-Israel faker. After Oct. 7, he said Bibi should be executed. He did not visit. Haley or Harris were no-shows, too. The Pope, a former ‘friend,’ suddenly, like his WWII predecessor, turned ‘neutral.’)
Then, there are Israel-friendly leaders with more-or-less Antisemitic populations. Al-Sisi and the King of Morocco come to mind. Some of them may threaten Israel but never follow up. It’s for domestic consumption.
Then there are fair-weather friends. They are for Israel as long as Israel does as they tell it. They still believe in court Jews to their service in exchange for (temporary) support. They are impressed with themselves as ‘Israel’s best friends.’ But they see themselves as superior and their assistance as magnanimously ‘helping’ someone pitiful. The EU.
Then there are deeply Antisemitic Peoples with similar leaders. Jordan is an example. Yet, the late King Hussein was not a Jew-hater.
Then there are the situational enemies. When Zionists fought the British occupation, Irish nationalists were our friends but also Hitler’s. When the UK became our ally, the Irish befriended our terrorist enemy.
Then there is the opposite, Peoples without a homeland who by-and-large support Israel: the Kurds, Frisians, Armenians, Basques, and Catalonians.
Then there are new arrivals. The populist Argentinian President flew all the way to Israel to declare his solidarity after October 7, unlike his neighbor.
And then there are the new haters. South Africa has been hostile for generations, but the present level of hatred for Jews is new. Forgotten are all those South African Jews who sat in jail for fighting Apartheid. Mandela was not Antisemitic but his students went their own ‘Christian’ way.
So, don’t just talk about ‘country X’ vis-à-vis Israel. Specify if you mean its leader or its population, now or in the past.
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Chronologically, his most influential teachers are his parents, Nico (natan) van Zuiden and Betty (beisye) Nieweg, Wim Kan, Mozart, Harvey Jackins, Marshal Rosenberg, Reb Shlomo Carlebach, and, lehavdil bein chayim lechayim, Rabbi Dr. Natan Lopes Cardozo, Rav Zev Leff, and Rav Meir Lubin. This short list doesn't mean to disrespect others who taught him a lot or a little. One of his rabbis calls him Mr. Innovation [Ish haChidushim]. Yet, his originalities seem to root deeply in traditional Judaism, though they may grow in unexpected directions. In fact, he claims he's modernizing nothing. Rather, mainly basing himself on the basic Hebrew Torah text, he tries to rediscover classical Jewish thought almost lost in thousands of years of stifling Gentile domination and Jewish assimilation. (He pleads for a close reading of the Torah instead of going by rough assumptions of what it would probably mean and before fleeing to Commentaries.) This, in all aspects of life, but prominently in the areas of Free Will, Activism, Homosexuality for men, and Redemption. *
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